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BdsmDominant

Madison, Wisconsin | Hombre Buscando Mujer

Información Básica

Puedo hablar
Inglés
Me describiría a mi mismo como
I sometimes get the impression from others that after reading someone's profile here, you're supposed to magically know everything about who they are as an individual. Can't happen! By the same token should you decide to judge someone because of what's here without actual intimate knowledge then that's also your bad. Communicate. It's still free. I'm a mentored, Leather influenced, self realized Poly Sadist and I don't see that changing anytime soon. That's the short version. As a Marine Corps vet, discipline, principles and protocol are important to me. I believe in conservative leather ways which means that I have principles that I try and live by which largely amount to be good to your fellow human, It's really not that complicated. Some have asked me to overlook or modify some of my principles, boundaries or limits to suit their needs. I've asked that they spend their energies in more useful pursuits that don't include me. I respect boundaries and expect that in return. I'm and old school kinda guy. I believe in mentorship and the sharing of knowledge and perspective. If you have something useful to share then share it. That's largely how I got here. Those that know me know that I don't need to be in the spotlight but if I have a point to make I will make it. I have presented on topics and attended events that I feel reflect my own views and opinions. That doesn't mean I can't or won't explore new or different perspectives. For me it's about the journey not the destination. I can be quiet but radical, polite but direct. I consider myself approachable so if there is something on your mind, say it and let's see where that takes us. I can fit into most situations but if I feel that I don't need to be there anymore then I simply remove myself. A behavior that has served me well. In the dungeon It can be a mixed bag depending on the bottom but I can be a hard player. I'm a spanking, torture, flogging make em scream kinda guy. Poor home training I suppose. Are there any compatible partners looking for a mature, poly, sadistic Dominant male that still believes in principles such as honesty and integrity? I hope so.
Signo
Sagitario

Apariencia y Situación

Mi tipo de cuerpo es
Musculoso
Mi altura es
5' 7 (1.7 m)
Mis ojos son
Marrones
Mi raza es
Afro Americano
Mi situación marital es
Divorciado
Tengo hijos
No
Quiero tener hijos
No
Mi Mejor característica es
Brazos
Mi pelo es
Calvo
Tengo uno o más de estos
Sin Mascotas

Estatus

Mi nivel de estudios / educación es
Algo de Universidad
Mi situación laboral actual es
Tiempo Completo
Mi especialidad es
Computadoras / Electrónica
Mi trabajo es como
I,T professional
Vivo en
Solo/a
En casa
Los amigos visitan ocasionalmente
Soy Fumador
No
Soy Bebedor
No

Personalidad

En el instituto, era
Atleta
Socialmente, me describiría como
Reservados, Observador, Amistoso
Mis aficiones e intereses son
Fotografia, Hacer ejercicio, Aprender, Música, Películas, Coches, Pesca / Caza, Ir de camping, Computadoras
Mi idea de un rato estupendo es
Salir con amigos, Quedarme en casa, Probar cosas nuevas, Películas, Relajarse, Leer un Libro, Ir a un Museo
Mi primera cita ideal sería
An ideal date would be one where we discuss what we are looking for, whether we are looking for something short term or long term. Lifestyle experience and overall comatibility
Siempre he querido probar
skydiving
Mis amigos me describen como
Amistoso, Genial

Puntos de Vista

Mi meta en la vida
To build successful relationships and be a positive force in the lives of others. This truly is the only thing that lasts.
Mi sentido del humor es
Seco / Sarcástico, Amistoso, Sádico/a

Gustos

En la TV, siempre veo
Documentales, Educativos, Películas
Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una
Acción, Ciencia Ficción, Drama , Documentales, Horror, Suspense
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Country, Rap, Rock, Electrónica, Pop, Clásica, Blues, Jazz, Baile, Soul, Reggae
Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es
Salud, Educativos, Técnica
Mi idea de diversión es
Spending time with a compatible partner. Learning, teaching, growing.

Estoy buscando a

¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Empatía, Humor, Buena Imagen, Detallista, Inteligencia
¿Qué estás buscando?
I am attracted to submissive and slaves that are truly emotionally grounded and want a relationship with a Dominant or Master that revolves around trust and dedication. Someone that is independent enough to be on their own but relishes in spending time and serving at their Dominant partners wishes and desires.

As strange as it may seem that a man would be non casual about sex, I am. I'm not here to have casual sex, not interested. I like strong and bonding connections which can lead to other forms of physical and psychological intimacy. Most people think that their sex organ is between their legs when it's actually on top of their shoulders.

Please DO NOT contact me if you are emotionally unstable, clinically or frequently depressed or have no emotional or self control. While I do not wish to discriminate, I say from experience that I have been in relationships with those that unfortunately suffer from these emotional challenges and while we both invested significantly in attempting a compatible dynamic, in the end things did not work out.

I am looking for maturity, honesty, integrity and a willingness to learn and grow in positive and rewarding ways.
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Cita, Íntimos, Comprometido