Unleash your wild side with me.😈

First name

Barry

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

"I'm craving intense chemistry and looking for someone to help release all this built-up tension. If you're down for some passionate, no-strings-attached fun, let's make some sparks fly!

Dare to play? I don’t bite... unless you’re into it, then I might nibble.😉🥵😈

I’m a 36-year-old man from Columbia Missouri, and I am single single, looking for something that goes beyond the “Hey, what’s up?” I’m not just swiping right for a casual fling—I’m on the hunt for a connection that's as deep as my Netflix history (and trust me, that's deep). Whether you're into kinky fun, soulful conversations, or the occasional pillow fight, let’s see if we can balance being a sweet “princess” by day and daddy's good little slut” by night. Spoiler alert: I’m very into both.

I’m a tough catch—like a Pokémon, but with better communication skills and an actual sense of humor. Once you’ve caught me, don’t worry—I’m loyal as a golden retriever, minus the drool. I take my time to get to know someone, because trust, communication, and avoiding unnecessary drama are my love languages. Whether you're looking for a real connection, playful exploration, or the occasional kinky event to spice things up, let’s take our time and see where it goes—no rush, no pressure, just good vibes.

I’m confident, adventurous, and ready to explore new experiences with the right partner—both in and out of the bedroom. Naturally, I fall into a Daddy dom/caregiver role (don’t worry, it’s not as scary as it sounds), but I’m more than happy to switch things up if the chemistry’s right. Trust is key—I’m not going to reveal my vulnerable side unless you’ve earned the right to see it. I’m all about that sweet spot between intensity and intimacy, whether we’re doing some light bondage, playful teasing, or just discussing why pizza is the greatest thing ever. (Spoiler: it’s because of cheese.)

After four years of personal growth (and binge-watching a disturbing amount of self-help videos), I’m finally in a place where I’m not rushing into a relationship just because I’m bored or need someone to watch “Stranger Things” with. I’ve worked through my emotional baggage (it’s more of a carry-on now), and I’m ready to share all the passion, fire, and mischief with someone who can keep up—while also knowing when to be sweet and submissive and a little bad. Can you balance that? Challenge accepted.

If you’re looking for a mix of passion, humor, and a little bit of kink sprinkled in—let’s chat. Who knows? We might just find out we’re a match made in playful heaven.

Sign

Cancer

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 6 (1.68 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Never Married

I Have Kids

Yes - Sometimes At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Visible Tattoo

My Hair Is

Light Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Retired

My Job Title Is

I am disabled

I Make This Much In A Year

Less Than $14,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

There Is No Noise

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Trying To Quit

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Outcast

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Comedic

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Games, Dancing, Cooking, Gardening

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Trying New Things, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

I am a big fan of super simple low cost first dates where we can get to know each other with minimal interruption. During this date I am more likely to listen to your story instead of telling mine. This is because up until the last few years I was in a constant survival mode because of the tragic and traumatic which limits what I can share about myself. DO NOT let my lack of sharing be seen as a lack of interest. I don't talk about my past to protect others from triggering any possible traumas they may have.

I've Always Wanted To Try

I have had this growing urge to go on a road trip of some sort. I haven't had the most ideal setup to have done any traveling out of state. I love adventures to someplace new.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Perfect, Goofy

My Religion Is

Other

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Conservative

My Goal In Life Is

My most important goal in life has been to overcome the trauma of childhood trauma to build emotional resilience and peace while also cultivating a healthy sense of self-worth and a positive self-image.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, I Don't Like Tv

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Documentary, Horror, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Dance, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

I Don't Like Reading

My Idea Of Fun Is

Creative Expression & Art,Engaging with Nature,Dancing and singing along with music I enjoy, Learning Something New, exploring online forums and communities while making new acquaintances. I am flexible and open to trying new things.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

I had an old therapist ask me this question and what I described to him was essentially a best friend and lover.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Intimate, Just Wanna Fuck, Secretive Sex