there is another world;it is in this one
Huxley
San Francisco, California | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
First name
Robert
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I'm an idealist and romantic at heart. In an afternoon light, surrounded by art or music, I can’t help but thinking what a glorious gift life is - to be able to live amidst the music, poetry, courage and idealism of the human spirit, amidst hills, trees, rivers, oceans and galaxies of stars and planets with the passion and good health to enjoy it all.
'Educated, older, healthy man with sense of humor seeks BDSM play, conversation, friendship.’
That is true. Our play can be just that if that is what you seek.
But ultimately I’m looking for romance and long term relationship/mate. In addition to her use of pain to discipline and train me sexually.
I’m looking for a woman with the capacity for: warmth, affection, tenderness, passion and a sense of humor, one who is willing to be happy, better yet one with bursts of joi de vivre, Someone who lives by the golden rule. I’m looking for emotional intimacy and intellectual companionship.
I imagine that we all carry the longing for emotional intimacy. It often sits quietly in the back of our mind but we can feel it sometimes, an ache in the heart, a longing, … There is intertwined with that ache the ache for the passion of sex, for intense engagement, that dance of two souls in the heat of passion ... Domination and submission can create that intimacy, something deeper than surface sex (although nothing wrong with that). It is one of its draws for me. What do you think?
Ideally I'm looking for an emotional and romantic connection with a woman who is my equal. In sexuality, I'm looking for a woman who will train and discipline me to be sexually subservient to her and use me for her pleasure. I can switch if she wants that at times; I’ve experienced both roles. Her arousal and pleasure is what turns me on.
By now you may have guessed that I enjoy writing, reading, conversations about a film, a play, a poem, a novel, art, freedom, the human psyche, the cosmos. Enough about me... I'd like to get to know you if any of this catches your interest.
'Educated, older, healthy man with sense of humor seeks BDSM play, conversation, friendship.’
That is true. Our play can be just that if that is what you seek.
But ultimately I’m looking for romance and long term relationship/mate. In addition to her use of pain to discipline and train me sexually.
I’m looking for a woman with the capacity for: warmth, affection, tenderness, passion and a sense of humor, one who is willing to be happy, better yet one with bursts of joi de vivre, Someone who lives by the golden rule. I’m looking for emotional intimacy and intellectual companionship.
I imagine that we all carry the longing for emotional intimacy. It often sits quietly in the back of our mind but we can feel it sometimes, an ache in the heart, a longing, … There is intertwined with that ache the ache for the passion of sex, for intense engagement, that dance of two souls in the heat of passion ... Domination and submission can create that intimacy, something deeper than surface sex (although nothing wrong with that). It is one of its draws for me. What do you think?
Ideally I'm looking for an emotional and romantic connection with a woman who is my equal. In sexuality, I'm looking for a woman who will train and discipline me to be sexually subservient to her and use me for her pleasure. I can switch if she wants that at times; I’ve experienced both roles. Her arousal and pleasure is what turns me on.
By now you may have guessed that I enjoy writing, reading, conversations about a film, a play, a poem, a novel, art, freedom, the human psyche, the cosmos. Enough about me... I'd like to get to know you if any of this catches your interest.
Sign
Virgo
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
6' 1 (1.85 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
European
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
My Hair Is
Grey
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
Yes
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Self-employed
My Speciality Is
Art / Music / Literature
My Job Title Is
Writer
I Make This Much In A Year
$45,000USD To $59,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
My Social Behavior Is
Observant
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Religion / Spirituality, Exercising, Reading, Music, Tv, Movies, Dancing, Theater
An Ideal First Date Would Be
The chemistry is what's important as we get a sense of each other in person - it's not so much the place or activity. It could be lunch or coffee; weather permitting a walk outside...
I've Always Wanted To Try
Travel is on my horizon.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
My Political Views Are
Libertarian
My Goal In Life Is
Currently 1. Finish a play that I'm currently working on. 2. Redecorate/fix up my home. 3. Find a play partner and/or preferably a mate/ long term relationship. 4. Travel 5. Resume teaching in some form.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rock, Classical, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient
When I Read, I Always Read
News, Ancient, Classic, Fiction, History, Philosophy, Political, Poetry, Religious, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, Romance
My Idea Of Fun Is
See my introduction...
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
'Educated, older, healthy man with sense of humor seeks BDSM play, conversation, friendship.’
That is true. Our play can be just that if that is what you seek.
But ultimately I’m looking for romance and long term relationship/mate. In addition to her use of pain to discipline and train me sexually.
I’m looking for a woman with the capacity for: warmth, affection, tenderness, passion and a sense of humor, one who is willing to be happy, better yet one with bursts of joi de vivre, Someone who lives by the golden rule. I’m looking for emotional intimacy and intellectual companionship.
I imagine that we all carry the longing for emotional intimacy. It often sits quietly in the back of our mind but we can feel it sometimes, an ache in the heart, a longing, … There is intertwined with that ache the ache for the passion of sex, for intense engagement, that dance of two souls in the heat of passion ... Domination and submission can create that intimacy, something deeper than surface sex (although nothing wrong with that). It is one of its draws for me. What do you think?
Ideally I'm looking for an emotional and romantic connection with a woman who is my equal. In sexuality, I'm looking for a woman who will train and discipline me to be sexually subservient to her and use me for her pleasure. I can switch if she wants that at times; I’ve experienced both roles. Her arousal and pleasure is what turns me on.
That is true. Our play can be just that if that is what you seek.
But ultimately I’m looking for romance and long term relationship/mate. In addition to her use of pain to discipline and train me sexually.
I’m looking for a woman with the capacity for: warmth, affection, tenderness, passion and a sense of humor, one who is willing to be happy, better yet one with bursts of joi de vivre, Someone who lives by the golden rule. I’m looking for emotional intimacy and intellectual companionship.
I imagine that we all carry the longing for emotional intimacy. It often sits quietly in the back of our mind but we can feel it sometimes, an ache in the heart, a longing, … There is intertwined with that ache the ache for the passion of sex, for intense engagement, that dance of two souls in the heat of passion ... Domination and submission can create that intimacy, something deeper than surface sex (although nothing wrong with that). It is one of its draws for me. What do you think?
Ideally I'm looking for an emotional and romantic connection with a woman who is my equal. In sexuality, I'm looking for a woman who will train and discipline me to be sexually subservient to her and use me for her pleasure. I can switch if she wants that at times; I’ve experienced both roles. Her arousal and pleasure is what turns me on.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage, Strap On Sex