James Starling
JamesStarling
Anchorage, Alaska | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
First name
James
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
Pansexual
Top Leaning Switch
Sensual Hedonist
Solo Poly Leaning
Non-Monogamous Ethical Slut
I have been actively pursuing the alternative lifestyle for this past year. I enjoy attending educational workshops and socials on kink. I love participating in the community when, where, and in the capacities I am able to. I am grateful to this wonderful kinky community for the warmth and welcome I have felt here as well as the friendships I have made in this past year on my journey in KINK.
FYI - I am in the middle of relationship drama with my wife currently. She has recently moved out and I have filed for divorce. Please feel free to ask for specific details and I will fill you in. I understand if this an issue for play with anyone and I want to be upfront about it.
I am open to interacting with most folks I meet. If we haven't met yet, try stopping by any of the Anchorage Munches; there is a good chance I may be there. I love getting to meet and get to know new people in public first in these types of Kink friendly group settings.
My preference is female presenting, but I enjoy intimate contact with all parts of the gender spectrum. Good hygiene is a must for myself. My preference is to use barriers for protection for all sexual activities by default. However, I do enjoy giving unprotected oral sex to folks with vaginas if we have negotiated according.
Condoms, Birth Control, and Recent STI test results required for any type of intercourse.
Overall, I enjoy both giving and receiving oral sex and body worship with my mouth, hands, and any other toys as we may negotiate regardless of gender.
Getting to know others better, making out, using toys on others for their pleasure, and mutual stimulation are some of my favorite activities. I enjoy topping electrical stimulation (neon wand), light impact, light bondage, sensation play and sensual sexual massage; I feel fairly confident and competent in my capabilities in these areas. I also enjoy practicing both topping and bottoming for impact, bondage, role play scenes, and other kinky activities.
I am open to discussing most activities and may also become open to trying new activities if I feel that I have enough background information on the activity and trust in the play partner's experience in the activity I am having a scene with. A great way to improve your chances of play with me are attending play parties where I have seen you interact and play with others I know. Referrals from trusted prior play partners I have seen others play with go a long way with me.
If you are interested in playing together, please let me know. I tend to be a little shy in asking. I am not worried about being rejected if anyone is not interested; I just want make sure that I don’t make anyone uncomfortable.
I looking forward to meeting, connecting, and sharing myself with other kinky folks who are interested. I really appreciate when others share their kinks and vulnerabilities with me as well.
Top Leaning Switch
Sensual Hedonist
Solo Poly Leaning
Non-Monogamous Ethical Slut
I have been actively pursuing the alternative lifestyle for this past year. I enjoy attending educational workshops and socials on kink. I love participating in the community when, where, and in the capacities I am able to. I am grateful to this wonderful kinky community for the warmth and welcome I have felt here as well as the friendships I have made in this past year on my journey in KINK.
FYI - I am in the middle of relationship drama with my wife currently. She has recently moved out and I have filed for divorce. Please feel free to ask for specific details and I will fill you in. I understand if this an issue for play with anyone and I want to be upfront about it.
I am open to interacting with most folks I meet. If we haven't met yet, try stopping by any of the Anchorage Munches; there is a good chance I may be there. I love getting to meet and get to know new people in public first in these types of Kink friendly group settings.
My preference is female presenting, but I enjoy intimate contact with all parts of the gender spectrum. Good hygiene is a must for myself. My preference is to use barriers for protection for all sexual activities by default. However, I do enjoy giving unprotected oral sex to folks with vaginas if we have negotiated according.
Condoms, Birth Control, and Recent STI test results required for any type of intercourse.
Overall, I enjoy both giving and receiving oral sex and body worship with my mouth, hands, and any other toys as we may negotiate regardless of gender.
Getting to know others better, making out, using toys on others for their pleasure, and mutual stimulation are some of my favorite activities. I enjoy topping electrical stimulation (neon wand), light impact, light bondage, sensation play and sensual sexual massage; I feel fairly confident and competent in my capabilities in these areas. I also enjoy practicing both topping and bottoming for impact, bondage, role play scenes, and other kinky activities.
I am open to discussing most activities and may also become open to trying new activities if I feel that I have enough background information on the activity and trust in the play partner's experience in the activity I am having a scene with. A great way to improve your chances of play with me are attending play parties where I have seen you interact and play with others I know. Referrals from trusted prior play partners I have seen others play with go a long way with me.
If you are interested in playing together, please let me know. I tend to be a little shy in asking. I am not worried about being rejected if anyone is not interested; I just want make sure that I don’t make anyone uncomfortable.
I looking forward to meeting, connecting, and sharing myself with other kinky folks who are interested. I really appreciate when others share their kinks and vulnerabilities with me as well.
Sign
Virgo
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Separated
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Smile
Body Art
Other
My Hair Is
Salt And Pepper
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Computers / Electronic
My Job Title Is
Special Credits Process Development Mgr
I Make This Much In A Year
$75,000USD To $99,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Friendly
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Camping
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Coffee
I've Always Wanted To Try
TBD
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly
Views
My Religion Is
Not Religious
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
To be better each day than yesterday.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Campy, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Drama, Documentary
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rock, Pop, Dance, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read
News, Biography, Business, Computers, Health, History, Humor, Instructional, Nature, Technical, Erotica
My Idea Of Fun Is
PLAY
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
Integrity
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate, Other, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Bondage, Group Sex, Just Wanna Fuck, Strap On Sex, Vacation Fuck