Cuddly Switch with a sense of humor

First name

Jefrey

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I’m cuddly with a dad bod and the jokes to match. Very switch, I enjoy either side of the gentle D/s dynamic. Not looking for a hookup. You can’t rush trust. People are people, not dopamine dispensers. Fairly new and exploring. Looking for people to talk to and get to know, maybe play eventually if we hit it off. Kind of dorky and on the spectrum, pretty self aware and actively seeking to love and appreciate myself more. Love to give and receive attention and affection.

Two years separated (still married for the healthcare benefits so that each can make ends meet, US healthcare sucks) in different states, with adult children living their best life. Understand that’s a hard limit for some, so want to be up front about it. Consent isn’t consent unless it’s informed consent. Happy to be someone’s wingman as well as play partner, and friend above all. No expectations and no pressure.

Sign

Capricorn

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

6' 1 (1.85 m)

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Separated

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

My Hair Is

Salt And Pepper

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Education / Academic

My Job Title Is

Librarian

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Nerd

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Theater, Cooking, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Dinner, maybe drinks, maybe something fun (axe throwing, escape room, etc.) or walk around somewhere interesting or pretty. If things click maybe cuddle up with music or tv or a movie. Keep things fun and relaxed.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Heading north to see the Northern lights, learning shibari, hypnosis

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Agnostic

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Very Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

Be the better part of someone’s day

My Kind Of Humor Is

Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Horror, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Biography, Fantasy, Fiction, Horror, Humor, Music, Poetry, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, Erotica

My Idea Of Fun Is

Enjoying company, seeing something new, laughing at ourselves, sharing experiences

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

Someone who loves themselves and seeks interactions out of want rather than need, sex-positive, affectionate, relentless, kinky, attentive, gently sadistic and/or playfully submissive, loves to tease and/or be teased, control and/or be controlled, respects boundaries, appreciates lots of aftercare

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Other, Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage