Excitement with a think coat of Vanilla

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Thank you for stopping by my profile.

I am 41 years old and live in Cookeville, Tn. I am safe, sane, responsible,and well educated. I am able to uphold my end of a conversation, and my conversations are not all just about sex and kink. I know my way around a kitchen and enjoy good food especially when it can be shared with good friends. By all outward appearances, I am a perfectly normal and respectable person.

However I also have a strong dominant side. This side focuses on control and submission. I am not what one would call a sadist, however a small amount of roughness in the bedroom is always nice. What turns me on the most is the idea of a woman submitting to my control and surrendering to me the responsibility for her pleasure. This could involve many things such as bondage, sensory deprivation, or even spanking when necessary. And as always rewards and encouragement are given for obedience. I am not a harsh Dominate but I can be firm when necessary.

Sign

Cancer

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

6' 4 (1.93 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Other

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

Tell ya later

I Make This Much In A Year

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

I Live

Alone, With Pet(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Trying To Quit

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Comedic, Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Cars, Computers, Cooking, Learning, Travel

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Casino, Going To A Museum, Partying, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv

An Ideal First Date Would Be

I refuse to put anything in this catagory. What if I say my ideal first date would be an afternoon bowling, only to find out that the woman of my dreams had witnessed a horrific accident involving a ball return leaving her terrified at the thought of such a date?

I've Always Wanted To Try

Scuba Diving.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Perfect, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Not Sure

My Goal In Life Is

I have many goals in life, and as I get to know you better I will freely share them with you. But for now, my immediate goal is to finish this profile.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

Cartoons, Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Animation, Horror

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Classical, Folk, Reggae, Rock

When I Read, I Always Read

Erotica, Fiction, History, Humor

My Idea Of Fun Is

Clowns are fun... Wait, no they're not. They sorta border on the creepy side if you ask me.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Intelligence, Passiveness, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit

What Do You Look For?

Please be able to hold your own in a conversation. It is very important to me that there can be communication between us about what works and what doesn't, as well as your needs and mine.

I am not into Humiliation. Submission is a gift, and should be treated as such. A Sub is not inferior to their Dominant partner. In my opinion, I feel they have the most control in the relationship. I won't make you call me Master, my dominance isn't based on that. It's based on trust, respect, and confidence. I'm willing to take the time to properly allow that to develop at your pace and with your needs and limits in mind.

My ultimate goal is to find an interested women to explore these boundaries and desires with. I would rather start out as friends, and allow a strong relationship to flourish.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Other, Oral Sex, Domination, Just Wanna Fuck, Secretive Sex