Well Heeled Switch With a Sense of Humor

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Hello and welcome. This is a discreet, consensual agreement with no strings attached. We'll go for coffee first, see how we hit it off, and then explore from there. I always look for an assurance of mutual trust and respect; once we have that, we can move into new territory. Ask me for a picture and we'll trade them through email.
I live and work in the Tulsa area, have expensive tastes, and I run a tight ship in my private life. I enjoy strong confident women with a lean, or toned build. I am looking for a physical and mental equal. 5’8”-6’. The taller the better; I do not care if you are taller than me in heels. Women find me very comfortable to be with, and I am a gentleman at venues. Behind closed doors however, it turns me on to dominate a strong willed confidant woman. Many women are looking to either be a Domme or sub exclusively; but I am not interested in a full time slave, or Domme for that matter. I require a Domme 75% of the time, and that same strong willed woman forced into submission about 25% of the time. I expect you to be my proud dominatrix muse most of the day, wherever we are. Poised. Affluent. Fashionable. Authoritative. Well heeled. A form fitting, subtle leather pencil skirt, silk blouse and stilettos while we are out; PVC corset and thigh highs at home. Unspoken mutual respect is the foundation. I would love to hear about your methods and your plans for me. You can keep me hot and bothered, see how much I can take, make ridiculous demands, and experiment for your amusement. I really don’t care as long as you dress the part, legitimately capture my attention, and assume the persona of a domestic goddess. At some point I’ll grow tired of your games, and I’ll decide to take what’s mine. … we fall to the floor grappling; your hair in my face. Your gloved hands claw as they are wrenched behind your back and bound tightly. You inhale to scream again, but I wedge a ball gag between your teeth and pull the strap tight. You buck wildly, scratching at the hardwood with your stiletto boots to regain your footing. With the big red ball buckled in tight, I neatly wrap the rope a couple times around your throat and pull your wrists up uncomfortably behind your back. I stand over you to admire my work. You glare back at me, fuming, still breathing heavily. I have become very good at this. The rest of the weekend is spent breaking in the proud dominatrix, as she is dragged down into the basement kicking and screaming into her gag. Your ordeal is a prolonged, inevitable breaking in and you never go quietly. Your progressive predicaments vary, but the themes are always the same. Tied up, gags buckled in tight, objectified, defiant, exasperated, displayed, attended to constantly, and available. I am very creative and I enjoy taking my time. What I am into: the art of Jay Edwards and Devonshire. Stockings, garter belts, bondage stilettos, fishnet, latex, hoods, collars, PVC and corsets. After you are broken and I am satisfied, I turn you loose and we start over at the beginning. A total necessary reset. You once again assume the throne of goddess. My strong dominatrix holds sway again for a season. I will come again at a time of my choosing, but for now, it feels so nice to have a Dominatrix around the house...

Sign

Aries

My Body Type Is

Athletic

My Height Is

5' 10 (1.78 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian, Other

My Marital Situation Is

Never Married

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Salt And Pepper

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Research / Science / Engineering

My Job Title Is

Project Engineer

I Make This Much In A Year

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Learning, Movies, Dancing, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Camping, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

This isn't a first date, but go with me on this: Bull in the Alley or RedRock; low lit atmosphere. It is storming that evening, so you arrive at the reception area in a short, black PVC raincoat with the waist belt cinched, accenting your tall silhouette. Patrons steal a few glances but keep it to themselves. An eyebrow is raised, but of course you know how to handle yourself with a little attention. I take your coat and satin scarf, and you are wearing a partially unbuttoned dark blouse, pencil skirt, black patent stiletto boots, and a suggestive choker. Thin hoops glimmer under several locks of your hair. I am wearing a dark button down shirt and a tailored sport jacket. You are an excellent communicator, charming, suggestive, but self-controlled. Conversation wanders through familiar waters and eventually we connect and share arousing experiences. We slide into more adventurous themes. You visit the ladies room and forget your purse, and then text me and ask me to look in it for something. I open it and discover handcuffs and a 2” red latex ball gag. I ask you who they are for, and you suggest they are for me if I am a good boy. I discretely remove the cuff key from your purse and ask for the check. We finish out dinner with subliminally charged verbal sparring, and I invite you over to look at my equipment while I finger the key in my pocket.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Okay this one will be fun to fill in too. ;)

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Month

My Political Views Are

Libertarian

My Goal In Life Is

To work when I want to, on the projects I enjoy, on my time frame, and vacation internationally. To enjoy my chosen lifestyle to the fullest.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Romance, Drama, Thriller, Adult

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Dance

When I Read, I Always Read

Business, Health, Instructional, Mystery, Reference, Religious, Science Fiction, Technical, Supernatural

My Idea Of Fun Is

Me or my alter ego? Going out for dinner with close friends, and laughing the night away. Spending Saturday morning making love and then going out for brunch.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

Polarity has always caught my attention. A clear spark. Slender. Close to my height. Stilettos. A great smile. Self confidence. A thirst for learning and knowledge and knew experiences.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Other, Doesnt Matter, Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage