A little bit notebook and Shades of Grey

First name

Cary

I Would Describe Myself As

Looking for sexy sub for play and exploration. Possible LTR with right partner.

Few new Doms really understand that there's a whole etiquette to the real lifestyle. And submission is a gift, not given lightly to just any Dom.

There is a dynamic of sexual control, but there's respect and admiration for the offering. Shouldn't be given lightly, nor accepted lightly. Both have their own responsibilities to the other.

Both should feel a sense of pleasure and fulfillment from what they share together. That's why it's the pursuit of pleasure, not just for the Dom but for his submissive as well.

It should awaken desires and passions, a love dynamic even if you're not necessarily in love, but it can blossom into that, because it should draw out strong positive emotions and release for both.

But again, there is an etiquette. Being a Dom doesn't mean you're a bully. You're a partner. Both Dom and submissive roles carry equal weight, respect, and ernest passion.

The lifestyle is centered around physical pleasure, but it's more then just that. There's a mental and emotional aspect to the pleasure they share as well.

Sign

Aquarius

My Body Type Is

Athletic

My Height Is

Taller Than 6' 4 (1.93 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Lips

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Dark Blonde

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Transportation

I Make This Much In A Year

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Reading, Sports, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Games, Theater, Travel

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Extreme Sports, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Somewhere we both enjoy, feel comfortable, can talk playfully without loud music.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Kayaking

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Movies, Sports, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Horror, Thriller, Adult

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Blues, Industrial, New age, Folk, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Ancient, Biography, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, Humor, Instructional, Mystery, Poetry, Satire, Science Fiction

My Idea Of Fun Is

Concerts, Theater, dinner on a patio w live music, anything near water, amusement parks, cuddling while watching a movie, having a spank session with my sexy sub. 😈

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

Intelligence, inner beauty and kindness, wit, humor, healthy communication, kindness and warmth, passionate, strong yet gentle.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Oral Sex, Anal Sex