Loving Dom seeks sub/slave for LTR
VADom53
Portsmouth, Virginia | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
First name
Don
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
Welcome, and thanks for stopping by!
Note! Being able to converse orally is very important.
I seek a lover, friend, partner, significant other, someone to share life with, care for, and learn to love. I highly value intelligence and independent thought in a partner.
I am also a dom. (Surprise!) If I am fortunate enough to find someone who wants me as their master, then I may also be that. I have been in the past. I exercise. I am quite controlling, although not domineering (and yes, there is a difference). The 50s household and lifestyle BDSM items fit well.
I have, for my age, a very active libido. Giving my partner pleasure pleases me no end. A helplessly orgasming woman is incredibly erotic.
Regarding limits, I honor them, of course. Limits need to be a key part of our pre-meeting conversations in order to determine whether or not ours are compatible.
So long as you are legal, age per se is not an issue -- but your mind, your face, and your body all need to attract me at least somewhat. I am good with the grow old together thing -- but the initial attraction needs to be there, or I cannot make that initial bond that makes the growing old together a good thing rather than painful. That means visuals (x-rated not necessary) and meetings early on. That goes both ways, of course -- What is good for the goose ...
Other deal breakers include STDs, dishonesty, obesity, illegal drug use or excessive drinking, at home and smoking anywhere other than outside. I do have a cat allergy, although that could be addressed over time if need be.
If you have gotten this far without bailing, thanks for the effort! -- and I very much look forward to chatting with you! I do contact women here I think might click with me. But if you have read to here and would like to chat, please do email me here. I am friendly.
No cyber or phone sex. Cams are great (and I have a good one) -- but for seeing the other person while chatting, not for remote play. Emails first, then IM, then phone, then meet. No particular schedule, but days or weeks, not months or years.
My Ideal Person I seek a woman to become my significant other *and* submit to me as a 24/7 submissive or consensual slave for a monogamous LTR. If you do not see yourself in such a role, we are not a fit.
Note! Being able to converse orally is very important.
I seek a lover, friend, partner, significant other, someone to share life with, care for, and learn to love. I highly value intelligence and independent thought in a partner.
I am also a dom. (Surprise!) If I am fortunate enough to find someone who wants me as their master, then I may also be that. I have been in the past. I exercise. I am quite controlling, although not domineering (and yes, there is a difference). The 50s household and lifestyle BDSM items fit well.
I have, for my age, a very active libido. Giving my partner pleasure pleases me no end. A helplessly orgasming woman is incredibly erotic.
Regarding limits, I honor them, of course. Limits need to be a key part of our pre-meeting conversations in order to determine whether or not ours are compatible.
So long as you are legal, age per se is not an issue -- but your mind, your face, and your body all need to attract me at least somewhat. I am good with the grow old together thing -- but the initial attraction needs to be there, or I cannot make that initial bond that makes the growing old together a good thing rather than painful. That means visuals (x-rated not necessary) and meetings early on. That goes both ways, of course -- What is good for the goose ...
Other deal breakers include STDs, dishonesty, obesity, illegal drug use or excessive drinking, at home and smoking anywhere other than outside. I do have a cat allergy, although that could be addressed over time if need be.
If you have gotten this far without bailing, thanks for the effort! -- and I very much look forward to chatting with you! I do contact women here I think might click with me. But if you have read to here and would like to chat, please do email me here. I am friendly.
No cyber or phone sex. Cams are great (and I have a good one) -- but for seeing the other person while chatting, not for remote play. Emails first, then IM, then phone, then meet. No particular schedule, but days or weeks, not months or years.
My Ideal Person I seek a woman to become my significant other *and* submit to me as a 24/7 submissive or consensual slave for a monogamous LTR. If you do not see yourself in such a role, we are not a fit.
Sign
Aries
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Fit
My Height Is
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Butt
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Salt And Pepper
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Self-employed
My Speciality Is
Education / Academic
My Job Title Is
copy editor
I Make This Much In A Year
$45,000USD To $59,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Dining, Exercising, Reading, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Cooking, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
A nice meal at a quiet restaurant where we could talk.
Or, if we both decide to go for it, a serious BDSM session.
Or, if we both decide to go for it, a serious BDSM session.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Inverted suspension
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Cool
Views
My Religion Is
Atheist
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is
Avoid people who care about politics
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Classical, Jazz, Latin
When I Read, I Always Read
Satire, Science, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is
Streaming TV or DVDs (without commercials) and movies; canoeing; talking with my partner; hiking; reading SF
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence, Passiveness
What Do You Look For?
attractive face, slender waist, not-huge thighs & butt
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Date, Intimate, Committed, Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage