my subs are my treasures

Jag kan tala

Engelska

Jag skulle beskriva mig själv som

I have always been a dominant person, and I have been involved in the s&m scene for years. Sadly though, I am often disappointed with those I meet: both doms and subs. It seems that most of what I see in the community is a performance rather than a genuine power exchange. Subs in the lifestyle so often give up their power with no expectation that their submission should be earned. They seem content with someone who can simply act the part. Doms expect to be in control with no expectation of judgement, standard, or responsibility for the power they have been entrusted. It almost seems as if there is some type of s&m behavior study guide out there which includes scripts for most of the "scenes" we engage in. I don't agree with this scenario at all because I feel it is simply a performance, and as such, deprives those involved of the most powerful emotions associated with s&m, to be truly powerful or truly powerless. As a dom, to be worthy of the ultimate responsibility of the trust your partner has placed in you. The trust that you know what's best, when to push, to stop, and above all else, when to look past fear and penetrate the emotional walls all subs eventually have. This is a role I take more seriously than any other, I do not feel entitled to your trust, or that it should come easily. To me it is not a prize to be won, but rather a privilege to be earned. My subs are my treasures, the most beautiful things to me. I am thankful for all they offer me and that I may become a better man and leader through the experiences they share with me. The value of a leader can only be measured by the improvement in those who follow him. I hold myself to this standard and my subs can expect nothing less. I will do all within my power to make you grow as person, gain self respect, and if all goes well, have a few orgasms along the way. I am not into performances, I am a genuinely dominant man both inside the bedroom and out. My approach to the community is a bit different, I don't intimidate, demean, or degrade unless those activities are of some real use to my sub. I try to command respect and inspire my subs to follow and obey through my actions and demeanor. Through my experiences, I have found this to be the only way to gain the trust and respect necessary to fully advantage from these types of relationships. I expect my subs to constantly grow as people through their sexual experience and they can expect my absolute respect, consideration and devotion in return. To me chivalry is not dead and belongs in our community. If you are still reading you may think that my opinion of the dominant role is somewhat odd and maybe soft, but it is not. I prefer sex to be rough and primal, but only as much as my partner is ready for . I don't want my partners to feel any responsibility for my pleasure, I will be responsible for theirs and take pleasure from my success and the power I have to satisfy. I also don't want my partner to ever have to fear pushing me too far, it would be inhibiting and make no sense for a woman to fear her man's limits, weaknesses, or fears. To her there should be none, and he should be her anchor. I think fear and pain are valuable to the creation of a beautiful relationship and are the foundations of trust and respect. If a woman is going to submit to me sexually she must first respect me trust me and feel safe. The only way to inspire such feelings is to be attentive and perceptive enough to guide her down whatever path she may need to wander to gain fulfillment. My only two steadfast rules are, cause no emotional damage and never betray my partner's trust. To end, I am a very sexually open person, not easily bothered or offended. My pain tolerance is oddly high and I love things to be rough and combative. I am skilled with ropes and have a deep love and respect for women of all types, so if you have read all of this and still have an interest in me, please make it known, I want to know you and understand your desire

Stjärntecken

Vattumannen

Min kroppstyp är

Atletisk

Min längd är

186 cm

Mina ögon är

Blåa

Min etnicitet är

Kaukasisk

Mitt civilstånd är

Singel

Jag har barn

Nej

Jag vill ha barn

Osäker

Min bästa kroppsdel är

Ögon

Kroppskonst

Strategiskt placerad tatuering, Synlig tatuering

Mitt hår är

Mörkblont

Jag har en eller flera av dessa

Katt

Villig att flytta

Nej

Min utbildningsnivå är

Vissa universitetsstudier

Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är

Egen-företagare

Min specialitet är

Finans / Handel

Min arbetstitel är

real estate and stock market investor

Jag tjänar så här mycket per år

Mellan 750 000 och en miljon kronor

Jag bor

Ensam

Hemma

Allt är lugnt

Jag är rökare

Nej

Jag dricker

Ja - feströker

I skolan var jag

Den coola

Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är

Uppmärksam, Vänlig, Komiker, Flirtig, Utåtriktad

Mina intressen och hobbies är

Motion, Konst & Hantverk, Läsa, Lärande, Filmer, Nattklubb / Bar, Middag, Teater

Att ha kul innebär för mig

Umgås med vänner, Stanna hemma, Prova nya saker, Bio, Tar det lugnt, Extremsport, Läsa en bok, Gå på museum

Den idealiska första dejten för mig skulle vara att

I try to keep first dates simple with few expectations and little pressure. I would start with a long dinner at a nice restaurant. We would hopefully have a lot to talk about and the expected first date tension should be diminishing by the end of dinner. Then if all went well, a quiet bar for more intimate conversation and a few drinks. I usually like to end first dates here and bring my dates home. I always walk my dates to the door and depending on the chemistry end the night with a kiss and a real feeling that I have shown her a good time.

Jag har alltid velat prova

I have lead a pretty full life and don't find myself wanting for much, but what I do desire i feel is better left in the bedroom next to the cuffs.

Mina vänner tycker att jag är

Vänlig, Någon de vill vara, Obskyr

Min religion är

Ateist

Jag går i kyrkan

Aldrig

Mitt mål i livet är

I avoid worrying about weather I am right or wrong and simply try to make good decisions for good reasons. This process has worked well for me and I expect it will continue do so, as I am not planning to loose my focus or mind. So at my death I would like to think that my life was perfect at least in the sense that it needed nothing added or removed, and had a unique balance to it.

Min humor är

Klok, Torr / Sarkastisk, Oanständig, Sadistisk

På TV tittar jag alltid på

Dokumentärer, Drama, Filmer

När jag går på bio ser jag alltid

Action, Science Fiction, Komedier, Romantik, Drama, Dokumentärer, Tecknat, Skräck, Thriller, Vuxen

När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på

Rock, Hårdrock, Eletronisk, Klassisk, Industriell, Ambient, Dansband

När jag läser föredrar jag följande:

Urgammal litteratur, Biografi, Handel, Fantasy, Historia, Filiosofi, Politisk, Religiös, Science Fiction

Det jag tycker är kul är

I am a very flexible and can enjoy most things, but given the nature of the site i will keep it sexual. I am tired of people who claim to be open minded and sexually adventuresome who clam up as soon I nibble, scratch, or -god forbid- slam them against a wall. I want someone I can take the gloves off with, and be myself around, and show a few things to. I am done with VANILLA sex and boring people. We, as human beings have so much more to offer each other, let's start, and see what fun we can have.

Vad tycker du är attraktivt?

Intelligens, Snygga drag, Enorm skicklighet, Empati, Känslighet, Djärvhet, Egendomligheter, Flirtighet, Kvickhet, Omtänksamhet

Vad letar du efter?

Our sexuality is, in my opinion, the foundation of our personality and worth exploring above all else. I have a difficult time finding people who share this opinion and are willing to let me lead them into those dark places in our minds we have so long been trained to ignore or worse to feel shameful of. I want to find someone who has, not only the courage, but the desire to expand herself through sex. I am tired of women being ashamed of themselves because of what they need and desire. I want a woman is ready to enjoy and desire without fear or shame.

Vilken form av förhållande söker du?

Dominans, Bondage, Dejt