sub male in ATX looking for Domme

First name

Askme

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Interested in meeting someone in the real world. Not interested in online only

From my earliest memories, I've been attracted to Dominant Women. I didn't have a name for it back then of course, and it wasn't even until well into college that I began to have a clue what BDSM was. For most of my twenties, I experimented, but I never found the right fit so to speak. Eventually, I settled down with someone that fulfilled enough of my submissive needs to make it work, though she was by no means a Dominant.

That ended not that long ago (though my sexual needs were not the reason at all), and I find myself once again taking tentative steps into the BDSM world, just not as shy and hopefully not as tentative this time around.

So I've been asked a few times what I'm looking for. I wish that was a simple answer! As I'm really just starting out again, I'm pretty open to trying new things. I'm definitely not ready for anything approaching a 24/7 or TPE scenario. I guess the easiest way to put it is that I'm looking for someone to learn and grow with. I do know that I'm not comfortable just 'doing a scene.' For me to play with someone, I need to have somewhat of a connection.

I'm open to the idea of being involved with a couple in the right situation. I just don't want to feel like nothing more than a plaything.

I'm not particularly modest. I've only played publicly a few times in the past. I'm interested in it, but like I said above, I need a connection.

For my vanilla interests, I love hiking and camping. I'm a total dog person (I like cats too, just haven't had one in a long, long time). I enjoy wood working (that certainly could be a non-vanilla interest too!). I'm pretty handy around the house and cars. I enjoy Sci-fi books and movies. I recently got back into cycling.

I love to cook and bake! One of my joys is planning a big, multi-course dinner and executing it. My specialties really are deserts, ask me about my famous French Silk Pie!

Sign

Libra

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

6' 0 (1.83 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Sometimes At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Other

My Hair Is

Blonde

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Contruction / Craftsman

My Job Title Is

Owner

I Make This Much In A Year

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

I Live

Alone, With Kid(s), With Pet(s)

At Home

It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Nerd

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Reading, Sports, Movies, Games, Dancing, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Playing Cards, Camping, Gambling, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Playing Video Games, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Meeting at something information, like a coffee shop, to see if we click

I've Always Wanted To Try

A very long list of things!

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Goofy

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

To be someone my kids love and are proud of.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

Cartoons, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical

When I Read, I Always Read

Fantasy, Fiction, Instructional, Science Fiction

My Idea Of Fun Is

I like to be outdoors, going hiking, camping, etc., but I also enjoy refined things like going to a nice dinner and the symphony

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Boldness, Sensitivity, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

I tend to notice how someone treats the people around them more than anything

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Other, Domination, Strap On Sex