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bobbie9395

Lakeside, California | Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I’m seeking someone who is not into severe pain, but is looking for a sub who craves serving. A sub who also enjoys spankings (NOT beatings; I’m not a pain slut), hot wax, some light bondage, and few other things that can be discussed later. I will not share myself or you with anyone else. I’m looking for a 24/7 relationship that will eventually become a live-in situation, so please be willing to relocate. My goal is a relationship that will blossom into a very caring, loving one. I am not a materialistic person, but do crave attention. I will need to hear from you daily (or close to it) while we’re getting to know each other. I’m not just looking for a sex partner, but a complete relationship.

Please be at least 55 years of age, and average to overweight. I won’t respond to anyone younger. Height is not extremely important, but please be at least 5’5”. I’m not your average-sized woman. I carry quite a bit of excessive weight, but have been working on it successfully, though I have a way to go.

I want to know what your expectations are, and I expect you to want to know my expectations and hard limits prior to pursuing a relationship. Please don’t assume you are my Dom and can give me orders prior to our actually establishing a relationship. We need to really get to know each other before a serious relationship can be embarked upon. Respect and trust must be established first. In my opinion, a REAL Dom, a good Dom, will know that it’s important to get to know each other before beginning a D/s relationship.

Please understand, I'm not just looking for a sex partner, but a complete relationship.

I feel a true Dom will understand what I’ve expressed here.

I suspect what I say here will result in my coming across as being bossy or authoritative and that is not at all my intention; however, because of recent disappointments, I will specify what I’m looking for in a Dom. If/when I find a compatible Master, he will find obeying comes naturally to me. However, recent experience with several deceptive gentlemen has resulted in my being more cautious and I will be taking my time in getting to know you.

I will answer any and all questions you may have to the best of my ability.

My Mentor has reviewed and approved this profile.
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Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
Heavyset
My Height Is
5' 5 (1.65 m)
My Eyes Are
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Widowed
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Hair
Body Art
Pierced... But Only Ear(s)
My Hair Is
Blonde
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No

Status

My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Retired
My Speciality Is
Retired
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Trying To Quit
I Drink
No

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A
Average Joe
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Friendly
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Reading, Tv, Internet, Family, Gardening, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Meeting after a period of time chatting online, leading to phone conversations. Meeting at an outdoor patio outside a restaurant or cafe.
I've Always Wanted To Try
I've always wanted to try things that are best left for private discussion.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly

Views

My Religion Is
Christian
I Attend Services
Once A Week
My Political Views Are
Conservative
My Goal In Life Is
To find a compatible Dom and live happily ever after.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Friendly

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch
Dramas, Situation Comedies, Sports, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy, Drama, Family, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Pop
When I Read, I Always Read
Fiction, Home & Garden, Mystery
My Idea Of Fun Is
A quiet evening at home, going to see a GOOD movie, family get togethers

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Power, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?
Seeking a person who is honest, loyal, patient, affectionate, family-oriented, not a sadist.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Oral Sex, Domination