Sticking My Toe in the Water - Hot Yet?
dabdoubi
Hesperia, California | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I just got on this site so my profile is not complete, yet.
I am a bit older and I am very quiet and subtle about my relationships. There are alpha and beta males, and there are anti-alpha and anti-beta males. I am an anti-alpha male, I work with the establishment but I don't deal with authority - especially bully authority - very well.
You see, I like to be in charge but I don't force it. I set the scene with a great deal of empathy. I read my partner's needs, and please her desires while she pleases mine. In fact, it does turn me on enormously when I please her and - with empathy - she loves to please me without inhibitions.
I am exploring this whole scene. I am new to it - never had a relationship like this.
I have this urge of switching - especially in the oral dominating area. My best fantasy is the eye contact that we have when I am pleasing her orally. We look into each other’s eyes and we both know we belong to each other and lost in who is the master and who is the slave. We switch and I look down at her dreamy eyes while she tastes me. There is this excitement/calmness washing over both of us.
I would love to share my desires with a woman and fulfill her inner cavewoman needs. I am open for suggestions/development with a woman. Exploration is a shared thing, not something staged by some dom with no flexibility.
I am a bit older and I am very quiet and subtle about my relationships. There are alpha and beta males, and there are anti-alpha and anti-beta males. I am an anti-alpha male, I work with the establishment but I don't deal with authority - especially bully authority - very well.
You see, I like to be in charge but I don't force it. I set the scene with a great deal of empathy. I read my partner's needs, and please her desires while she pleases mine. In fact, it does turn me on enormously when I please her and - with empathy - she loves to please me without inhibitions.
I am exploring this whole scene. I am new to it - never had a relationship like this.
I have this urge of switching - especially in the oral dominating area. My best fantasy is the eye contact that we have when I am pleasing her orally. We look into each other’s eyes and we both know we belong to each other and lost in who is the master and who is the slave. We switch and I look down at her dreamy eyes while she tastes me. There is this excitement/calmness washing over both of us.
I would love to share my desires with a woman and fulfill her inner cavewoman needs. I am open for suggestions/development with a woman. Exploration is a shared thing, not something staged by some dom with no flexibility.
Sign
Capricorn
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Stocky
My Height Is
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is
Smile
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Bald
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat
Willing To Relocate
Yes
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Research / Science / Engineering
My Job Title Is
(not at this time)
I Live
Alone, With Pet(s)
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Nerd
My Social Behavior Is
Shy
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Camping, Cars, Computers, Cooking, Fishing / Hunting, Games, Gardening, Learning, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Reading, Tv
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Going To A Casino, Playing Video Games, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be
I am open depending on who I am meeting, our goals, and what we would like to do. I have a lot of ideal scenarios.
I've Always Wanted To Try
(will share later)
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Obscure
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Very Conservative
My Goal In Life Is
(I have some interesting ideas that I will share later.)
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Reality Shows, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller, Adult
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Classical, Country, Rock
When I Read, I Always Read
Ancient, Business, Fantasy, History, Instructional, Mathematics, Mystery, Nature, News, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Science, Science Fiction, Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is
I am open to a lot of things but I can't stand the inner city rap, gangster culture.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Boldness, Empathy, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?
I am not looking for looks, power or money. I am looking for extreme passion, empathy, spontaneity. I love to have a partner who thinks the way I think - to connect with the inner desires and will not hold back in putting them into play. The ultimate in sharing.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Intimate, Oral Sex, Domination, Secretive Sex, Vacation Fuck