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I Can Speak

English, Other

I Would Describe Myself As

45 Year old adult Dom living in Winston-Salem looking for female sub. I am employed and self sufficient. Please be the same. I like to travel, camp out, cook, bake and make crafts. My children are grown and on their own except for my furry child (cat). Other than travel, nature, and cooking, I enjoy History, 80's Music, Equal rights and Veterans Causes. Looking for someone I can have intelligent conversations with, and share my life with. As far as the BDSM Lifestyle goes, I am not into a 24/7 relationship. I am looking for someone who understands that I prefer to keep our bedroom activities in the bedroom, and perhaps in clubs or small groups of like minded people. I'd like to start as friends first, meeting in public places. I'd like to see if your personality is a smartassed as mine (or at least that you appreciate my sense of humor), and see if we gel personally before we discuss our BDSM limits. Please understand that like everyone, I have a deal breaker. My deal breaker is people that are prejudice against other people based on their race, color, sexual orientation, disability, culture or beliefs. I know I am asking a lot, but I have a lot to give and share. My promise to you is that I will always give you the same respect you show me and others.

Sign

Virgo

My Body Type Is

Big And Beautiful

My Height Is

5' 6 (1.68 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Yes

My Best Feature Is

Arms

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Scarred, Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Bald

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Politics / Government

My Job Title Is

Caseworker

I Make This Much In A Year

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

I Live

Alone, With Pet(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Family, Dining, Photography, Exercising, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Learning, Music, Tv, Internet, Games, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Fishing / Hunting, Playing Cards, Camping, Volunteering, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Some Place public so we can see if we are compatible or not

I've Always Wanted To Try

I'll tell you my secrets when the time is right

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

Get my MA and become a Counselor

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick, Raunchy, Sadistic

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Family, Adult

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Metal, Pop, Gospel, Folk

When I Read, I Always Read

Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Comic, Fiction, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Instructional, Music, Mystery, Nature, Reference, Satire, Sports, Erotica, Supernatural

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Oddities, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence, Passiveness

What Do You Look For?

I'm looking for someone like minded, Someone who can be both submissive in the bedroom, and my team mate in public.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage