submissive currently looking for a Dom
embernight71
El Cajon, California | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I'm here to experiment more with my sexuality. Ask me anything and I will answer to the best of my ability. I am new to the lifestyle as far as admitting to myself that I am a submissive. But if I have to really think, I've been this way since I was 18 and got off after reading my first Anonymous Victorian Erotica.
I am not into pain, but want to explore what my limits are.
I feel like I'm at a crossroads. I work like almost 100 hours a week. Well I should say 40 hours is my real job and the rest are my fun hours of work where I write on geeky things and pop culture. I feel that I am losing myself to work, which leaves me no time for a social life. I guess I am looking for a wake up call? Sometimes i feel like I have no control over my life and other times I do.
Looking for people to chat with, preferably close to the area, you know in case we wanna hang for coffee or whatever.
I am not into pain, but want to explore what my limits are.
I feel like I'm at a crossroads. I work like almost 100 hours a week. Well I should say 40 hours is my real job and the rest are my fun hours of work where I write on geeky things and pop culture. I feel that I am losing myself to work, which leaves me no time for a social life. I guess I am looking for a wake up call? Sometimes i feel like I have no control over my life and other times I do.
Looking for people to chat with, preferably close to the area, you know in case we wanna hang for coffee or whatever.
Sign
Taurus
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Big And Beautiful
My Height Is
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
African American
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
Customer Service
I Make This Much In A Year
$30,000USD To $44,999USD
I Live
With Kid(s)
At Home
It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Class Clown
My Social Behavior Is
Comedic, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing, Shy
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Cooking, Family, Internet, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Tv
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Partying, Reading A Book, Relaxing, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Chat over coffee
I've Always Wanted To Try
Don't know yet... Will come back to this
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Troublemaker, Cool, Raunchy, Goofy, A Flirt
Views
My Religion Is
Christian
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Democrat
My Goal In Life Is
Is to be happy with that special someone. Already got a lot going on, so for now that is my goal.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Raunchy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Cartoons, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Animation
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Pop, Punk, Reggae, Rap, Rock, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read
Erotica, Fantasy, Romance, Supernatural, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is
Hanging out with friends, singing at a karaoke bar
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Power, Spontaneity, Wit
What Do You Look For?
Looks first, but not necessarily the classic looks, only what appeals to me. Someone taller than me. And someone who wants me for me.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Domination, Committed