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hottop1000

Oakland, California | Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

I Would Describe Myself As
I'm a warm, loving, but strict Dom, skilled in the art of creative, erotic BDSM and discipline. I'm known and respected in the local "community" for being safe, sane, caring, supportive and humorous. My secluded house in a woodsy area near San Francisco contains a large, uniquely equipped dungeon where submissives can and do live all their fantasies and mine as well. I am expert at bondage, suspension, spanking and other forms of impact play. For novices I am a patient, thorough trainer, teaching obedience, service, protocol, rituals, grace and sensual skills while expanding erotic experiences and increasing the links between pain and pleasure. Intense punishment, using canes, crops, floggers, paddles, whips, clips, weights, candles, etc. is reserved for seasoned masochists and lovers of extreme BDSM. Safe words are an option. All my BDSM play is intertwined with deep affection, eroticism and sexual gratification. The emotional and psychological connections between my sub and myself are as important as the physical rapture.
I would like to join in a passionate, joyous, long or short term D/s relationship with an attractive, trim, sensual sub. Ideally it would be live-in, TPE, and full ownership with few or no limits. However, other arrangements may be considered.
At the moment I am available for individual training and play sessions.
You may also contact me for information about private dungeon parties.
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Aries

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 4 (1.63 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
My Hair Is
Salt And Pepper
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No

Status

My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Retired
My Speciality Is
Art / Music / Literature
I Make This Much In A Year
$30,000USD To $44,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
No

Personality

My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Reading, Music, Movies, Dancing, Photography, Theater, Camping
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
fantasy scene
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Perfect, Raunchy, A Flirt

Views

My Religion Is
Agnostic
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
To have a loving, masochistic submissive partner
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Friendly, Raunchy

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Comedy, Documentary, Adult
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Classical, Blues, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read
News, Anthology, Biography, Classic, Fiction, Humor, Music, Political, Satire
My Idea Of Fun Is
Dancing, playing music, attending classical music concerts, travel, van camping, hiking, biking, hot tubbing, BDSM/scenes and sex parties, witty conversation, helping friends, communication, hugging, kissing, making love, museums, training subs

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
What Do You Look For?
intelligence, sensitivity, sensuality/sexuality, warmth, affection, sophistication, sense of humor, desire to serve and please, joie de vivre, submission, attractive face, trim body, masochism
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Group Sex, Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage