SEEKING A QUALITY CURVY CAPTIVE-FOR LIFE

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I am a 51-year old, tall, slim, fair-skinned black male. i am divorced and i have no children. although it did not work out as i would have wished, i am not at war with my ex-wife. i have spent some time in college and i have held a responsible job as a jet engine inspector for a major airline since 1989. i enjoy reading, and watching movies and cable television especially nature, science, and history shows. i also enjoy taking long nature walks, bike riding, and relaxing in beautiful places. i like to travel, and i like attending shows, and going to parties and to social and cultural events such as fairs and concerts. i used to ride a motorcycle, but my ex and some of the girls who preceded her didn't like to ride so i gave it up (although i still have the license). i do not smoke and i would prefer a partner who is also a non-smoker. i would consider a light or occasional smoker if we are otherwise compatible. i drink socially. i am not religious. my politics are a blend of left progressive and black pride, meaning that i look down on no one nor do i look up to anyone based upon their race or ethnicity. i do not have an inferiority complex or a superority complex. while i would prefer to meet a black or mixed-race partner, compatibility is paramount, and i am willing to meet and to interact with any woman who comes with a good heart and who shares my BDSM fetish.

i have always been excited and aroused by the sight and sound of a well-endowed (big, round, rear and big boobs) woman who is tightly bound, gagged, and struggling helplessly for the pleasure of her captor or captors. unfortunately, i have never been fortunate enough to meet a woman who shares my tastes. most of my girlfriends have refused to accomodate my needs or have made me feel bad for making my needs known to them.

i like to see my "victims"bound TIGHTLY and gagged EFFECTIVELY in various positions. i like to see them in a full variety of clothing: fully dressed in business suits, or wearing an evening gown and heels or low-rise jeans and a tee shirt. i would like to see my captives bound and gagged and wearing leotards, or a tutu, in well-filled track suits with stripes that follow their curves, or, in cute little tennis outfits with short pleated skirts that let them flash their panties, or in shorts, or in tight strech pants or wearing jodhpurs and riding boots. i would like to see them struggling in skin-tight leather pants or skirts, or in loud prints or in shorts. i love girly pajamas and lingerie, especially big tight, womanly brief-style panties that balloon when she puts them on. i love lacy bras straining at the seams when i tie her elbows back together behind her. i love tights in their many colors, and pantyhose with pretty panties visible underneath, and i drool over women in girdles that seem about to burst while they struggle in a hogtie or in an ass-up ball-tie, obviously in need of further spanking to subdue them. i love toplessness and erect nipples and mild breast bondage with clothes pins and ice. i love total nudity in all the good bondage positions. i would love slowing pushing wadding into my woman's wide open and willing mouth while she sits in my lap, or, switching her ball gag to one of a different color, or watching her drool over a dental or ring gag, or, fondling her face while i adjust her muzzle. i want to pull on her leash while she sits obediantly on her heels in her victorias secrets. most of all i want to look into her eyes above her gag and see love, devotion and delight.

i would love to have a partner who understands this without the need for me to explain myself, a woman who enjoys being a bound, sexually submissive chattel inside of an otherwise "normal" loving, heterosexual relationship.

Sign

Leo

My Body Type Is

Slim

My Height Is

6' 0 (1.83 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Hands

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Transportation

My Job Title Is

JET ENGINE INSPECTOR

I Make This Much In A Year

$60,000USD To $74,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Outcast

My Social Behavior Is

Observant

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Reading, Learning, Tv, Movies, Internet, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Family, Dining, Photography, Travel, Camping

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

a leisurely outdoor walk or a bike ride. i would take my date to some of the beautiful places that i have seen over the years. we would have a two person picnic, courtesy of a local deli. in the early evening maybe we would get lucky and find a good band playing locally at la pena or someplace like that. afterward we have a meal or go to a small bar and chat. hopefully at the end of the evening we would both have had a good time and we would know if we going to be see each other again.

I've Always Wanted To Try

bondage role playing with my lover over an extended period, such as a 3 or 4 day weekend. carrying my lover from place to place in the trunk of my car while bound and gagged. tying my lover in a secluded spot in a public place such as a beach, park, or forest. having my lovers mouth stuffed in public for an extended period of time during which we interact with other people and only we know that she cannot speak. noticing that my mate keeps dropping innuendos about the nature of our relationship but no one ever catches on.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Troublemaker, Cool, Goofy

My Religion Is

Not Religious

I Attend Services

Once A Year

My Political Views Are

Very Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

1. to finally meet and to love and to own the sweet submissive of my dreams. 2.to retire young enough and healthy enough to enjoy my freedom. 3.to continue to learn and to grow and, for as long as i live, to resist developing an inflexibility of the mind and of the heart.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Reality Shows, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rap, Pop, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Ancient, Business, Comic, History, Home & Garden, Instructional, Nature, Political, Reference, Satire, Science, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

Rounding a bend in a road or on a path or topping a hill and finding a plce so beautiful that one wants to spend all day there feeling the wind and the sun and hearing the birds ad watching the light change and the clouds move.
2. lying in bed or in a sleeping bag or on a blanket in a secluded place with my woman sleeping sprawled on top of me. i am awake and i listen to the sounds of the night, or of the morning or afternoon while i hold her close. i can hear her breathing, feel her weight and her warmth and i feel her heart beat while i stroke her sleeping body and rest my hands on her bottom.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness

What Do You Look For?

i am a male. i will notice curvature and voluptuosness first not a woman's iq or credit rating. i am not drawn to skinny women or women with flat asses. i am generally flattered and turned on by women who express an interest in me. i am seeking a woman who is both my mate and my bondage plaything. i like women who are clean, women who get their hair and nails done, women who are stylish, yet understated. to me, a real woman looks good bending over in the garden in a pair of overhauls or buying groceries in jeans and sneakers, or wearing an evening gown at a show. a real woman knows that her man is always watching her with a mixture of pleasure and amazement and she likes it. i would like to meet a woman who shares many of my interests, but one who also has her own passions and interests, and ideas. i want a grown-up woman with a sense of pride and with a sense of humor. one who can hold her own and can hold a conversation. a woman who can manage a household. a woman who can do things

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage