LDR/LTR Switch Looking for Right Girl
nkj1018
Norfolk, Virginia | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English, Urdu
I Would Describe Myself As
Lets get one thing settled girls, I will never, ever pay any amount or way for your 'services.' That is a terrible thing to ask a man for. But back to what you need to know. I can not get enough bondage in my life. The excitement is not just sexual nor soley dominant, though it's the most familiar. Wanting to expand to subbing soon but I'll discuss my dominant side for now. The thought of someone surrendering complete control is incredible. I've long looked for a girl who shares this feeling. This girl will need to be intelligent, concerned for safety, and humble. My entire sexual life has never been anything but devoted to BDSM and I think I'm a natural at it, if there is such a thing. Still, I have discovered how to do this kinky lifestyle the right way. Power must flow from the bottom up to have a healthy D/s relationship. This means I listen carefully and always to my sub, and incorporate whatever she needs to stay fulfilled in her fantasies and desires into out lifestyle, so long as it is done safely and effectively. The idea of being a sadistic out of control master may appeal to some but to me it's a horror. Don't get me wrong though because I am a fucking HUGE sadist and that is something a girl will need to be comfortable with if she gives up control to me. The said though, I never lose my grip on what is "too far" and will never administer only pain, even in punishment. Girls, please note I am a lingerie fan and if you come to me I will likely have you tied up often in a set of revealing undergarments ;) Oh and only one girl at a time. I do not do one night stands and will only move on to another if I part ways with the last one for good. Call it old fashioned but that sits well with me and I am not going to change it. Well that's all I can think of for now, just ask me in message if you have any other concerns or questions. I am very approachable and love kinky talk.
Sign
Libra
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 11 (1.8 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Legs
My Hair Is
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
High School Diploma
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Military
My Job Title Is
Tech
I Make This Much In A Year
$15,000USD To $29,999USD
I Live
With Roomate(s)
At Home
It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Cigars
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Comedic
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Internet, Dancing, Photography, Cars, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Partying, Staying At Home, Relaxing, Sleeping
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Just getting to know each other on a deep level (likes and dislikes and sexual fantasies). Dinner or w long phone call would do perfect.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Suspension, Cutting, and Anal
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Troublemaker, Goofy
Views
My Religion Is
Agnostic
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is
Nuclear Physics Degree
My Kind Of Humor Is
Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Cartoons, Dramas, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Horror, Thriller, Adult
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rock, Metal, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read
Fantasy, Fiction, Health, Science, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is
Getting to know others over some sort of game or a movie. Umm... Obviously sex. Photography is a growing and fun hobby I have too. Ask more of curious.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit
What Do You Look For?
A safe experience foremost. Really all I need is a girl willing to open her heart and life out to me. I think a proper Dom is one who first completely understands his sub but also knows he will never fully understand her and continuously adjusts his lead role to make both master and slave fulfilled. I want my girl to be ready to hold nothing back and expect the same on return. While re-location is not possible for the time being, frequent online and phone contact will fill the distance gap, as will occasional trips by me to my loyal sub. Safety is my prime concern no matter what happens though. Oh and a new note, I will sub on occasion or for the right girl. Just a completely situational fantasy :)
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage, Date