I Need You as My Sub

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

41, good looking, 6'5", blue eyes, brownish blonde, but tiny gray creeping in, don't think there is a chance I will lose my hair, in fact still have to get it thinned when it is cut. Goatee almosty always, short hair, curly when growing out. Not slim type, big, but not fat. Travel a lot for work during the week. Trouble with long-term, but have learned what I want and not to settle. Want to make life more exciting in the relationship/sex area. Will not settle or compromise on that ever again. Clean, professional, graduate degree, consultant for banks, and nice, but not boring. Well-done tattoos on shoulder, left calf, and sleeve on right lower leg.
Dominant, but caring, and not into inflicting a lot of pain, more into master/slave, dedication, worship from you, not out to hurt you a lot. Just not good at hurting women physically, but love to manhandle and control. Need to make sure you have as much pleasure as me, just under my terms though. You willing to do and try anything, but I need to know you enjoy it if we are going to do it again.
I am a protector, sometimes fight, but not with women. I get quiet during arguments with women, not yelling or abusive. Overall quiet and guarded till I trust you. Had a difficult childhood so I absolutely spoil and am dedicated to my two twin five year old boys. Unfortunately, no longer living with them, but have them a lot of weekends and they are my life, but will share with the right person.
I love sex, love women who love sex. Spontaneous and love to spoil. Been on my own since 15, married for a while, my fault we separated due to travel, but honestly we both learned we weren't the greatest match. We believe it was meant to bring our kids in the world, so we are amicable and wish each other a happy life with someone else. No family that I speak to other than my brother who is gay and married. Actually he has the strongest relationship of anyone I know. I can only hope I am half as strong as he is, as he has been through a lot, and our parents were even tougher on him, which was pretty brutal.
At first would be hidden, secretive, and discreet, then we will see where it will go. On that note, I have said way more than I ever expected to, or would be normal for me, but I am determined to find you, I know you are out there, whether it is for one night or a lifetime, I know you are out there for me. I know it sounds harsh, but I believe in honesty, so you are very attractive, probably brunette, Caucasian, Latin, or Asian, probably short, but with killer legs and a great body, doesn't have to be perfect (other than the legs) but not fat. If you are not, that doesn't mean you are not amazing, just not a match for me. To all, I wish the best of luck in all that you do, thank you for taking the time to read my story.

Sign

Pisces

My Body Type Is

Athletic

My Height Is

Taller Than 6' 4 (1.93 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

European, Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Separated

I Have Kids

Yes - Sometimes At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo, Visible Tattoo

My Hair Is

Dark Blonde

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Computers / Electronic

My Job Title Is

Consultant

I Make This Much In A Year

More Than $150,000USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Jock

My Social Behavior Is

Dark

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Sports, Reading, Learning, Family, Travel, Camping

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Me in a black suit, you in a long tight skirt and black stockings, long nails, and stilettos. A car to pick us up. A trendy bar with no tourists, good music not too loud to have a conversation, sitting so I can see your eyes and gams. Telling the truth and things no one knows about us. A few drinks to relax, but no getting drunk. Watching the other men (and women) stare at you. A walk to dinner with a view of the water, holding hands. Feeding each other bites. Watching you take your heels and stockings off so we can walk along the water, our first long slow deep french kiss holding your face in my hands. Going to a dance club with all different kinds of people, gay, straight, on drugs and off, loud music, dancing close and exploring each other lightly, carefully and respectfully in a dark booth. Watching you tease the good looking men and women. Handing you a hotel key and letting you tell the driver where to drop you off.....driving by your place the next night to drop off a red rose.

I've Always Wanted To Try

I don't want to try, I want to do. I want to find a strong confident women who will submit to me. I want to be in complete control. I want to see the animals in Africa. I want to adopt a child to protect him or her from parents who mistreat them and give them the life I never had. I want to love and control a women who loves and worships me. I want to see a women get a tattoo for me. I want to visit each of the continents. I want to live on the beach. I want to build a house. I want to see my woman submit to another woman. I want to protect women and children from (non-consensual) abuse. I want to live today as if I am dying tomorrow. I want you....

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Troublemaker, Obscure

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

On Holidays

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

To never take my friends, family, and life for granted. To not be my dad. To not be like my mom. To be as strong and proud as my gay brother. To find my soulmate and not settle again. To be everything a dad could be to my sons. To be someone my sons are proud of. To never let my friends down. To never let work overtake my personal life. To work hard and play hard. To learn. To try every day to you love me more. To never yell. To have our fights pale in comparison to the make up. To surprise you. To make you never doubt how gorgeous you are to me and how much I love you. To never lose your trust. To make you proud.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Dramas, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Drama

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Electronic

When I Read, I Always Read

Ancient, History

My Idea Of Fun Is

Any time at all with my twin 5-yr old boys, being in or near the ocean, traveling, laughing, and losing myself and forgetting everything else exists when I am with someone.
The pain and pleasure of a tattoo needle, kissing the back of a beautiful woman's knee, breathing in another's breath, the sound of a woman during an orgasm, the moment when you first enter someone new, a cold martini with only a kiss of vermouth, a huge spoonful of caviar, being high sometimes, the perfect wave, holding hands, owning someone's heart and soul, keeping promises, watching a beautiful woman while she sleeps, the moment when you know she will do anything you ask, the pain after a workout, getting my nails painted black, a woman's calf when she is wearing stilettos, tattoos and piercings, making her wear what I bought for her, having my toes, heel and the sole of my foot kissed and sucked, a woman bowing down to me, and seeing fear in her eyes while she has an orgasm.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

It has to start with looks, brunette, gorgeous legs, usually short/petite. Confidence, but dedication. Must have a sense of humor, enjoy life a lot, exciting, adventurous, BUT cannot be happy all the time, its unrealistic. Dark side, depressed sometimes, manic, and sometimes insane. Life is and should be a rollercoaster. Scared of sometimes, but always willing to try new things. Loves sex and is understanding of all things sexual, but doesn't have to try it all. Allows me to look at other women, but only touch if both of us are attracted to her. Sorry, but I don't think I can be reciprocal in that, but you never know. I do love gorgeous tattoos and piercings, but not raunchy...like colorful sleeves or backs, not a black ink butterfly on a shoulder.
Puts love ahead of material things, puts a lot of things ahead of material things. No problem with money being important, just use it to improve your life, not just to acquire what the neighbors have. Let us have our space, our friends, o

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Secretive Sex, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Date