Sick of men who offer 2 serve b4 talkin?
sbmissiveseeking
Phoenix, Arizona | Mann Suche eine/n Frau
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John
Ich würde mich selbst beschreiben als
If you are sick of supposedly submissive men who offer you the world before even talking to you, then we should talk. I honestly don't know how any woman would tolerate that. It's basically saying they don't care who you are because all they want is either wank material or to use use for their fetishes and they make the same offer to every other woman who will hold still long enough to listen.
Here's an old bdsm joke for you. How do you clear a room full of submissives? Say the word service. I've been serving for over 40 years.and also have spent time in the dominant role, so I understand not only my own needs, but the needs of a dominant as well. Not to say all dominants are the same but the mind set behind it all. For me, BDSM is about the connection and energy flow, the honesty and the deep meaningful trust and communication. As far as I'm concerned, there can be no real submission without trust. People can bottom in kink play but there is no bond with that. If you need to bind your dominant with a laundry list of limits and safe words, then you are the one in control and the whole thing is no more than role play. With trust, there is no need to limit your dominant. You trust they have the knowledge, experience and integrity to limit themselves. Having power does not mean you are compelled to use or misuse it. That is why I seek a relationship that can build toward true CNC. But to be clear, that means in the context of the relationship. I'm not going to sign my house and bank account over to you. Nor am I going to support you monetarily. Relationships work when all the people involved work at it. We support each other or not at all.
And to be clear if it isn't already, I won't serve any woman who thinks she can demand it of me. I won't serve any woman who wants a weak, worthless man, or who treats her slave like a child. I'm a strong, confident man who has contributed more to this world than most people do in a lifetime. I am proud of myself and seek to be owned by a woman who is proud of my service. As far as kink play goes, CNC. Yes I have interests and needs which tend toward the extreme, but I only seek to serve a woman whose interest encompass mine as well. Anyone who thinks bdsm is all about them and that dominant doesn't need to make sure that the slave's needs are met as well is a dominant with no slave.
So if these words resonate with you, then let's talk.
Here's an old bdsm joke for you. How do you clear a room full of submissives? Say the word service. I've been serving for over 40 years.and also have spent time in the dominant role, so I understand not only my own needs, but the needs of a dominant as well. Not to say all dominants are the same but the mind set behind it all. For me, BDSM is about the connection and energy flow, the honesty and the deep meaningful trust and communication. As far as I'm concerned, there can be no real submission without trust. People can bottom in kink play but there is no bond with that. If you need to bind your dominant with a laundry list of limits and safe words, then you are the one in control and the whole thing is no more than role play. With trust, there is no need to limit your dominant. You trust they have the knowledge, experience and integrity to limit themselves. Having power does not mean you are compelled to use or misuse it. That is why I seek a relationship that can build toward true CNC. But to be clear, that means in the context of the relationship. I'm not going to sign my house and bank account over to you. Nor am I going to support you monetarily. Relationships work when all the people involved work at it. We support each other or not at all.
And to be clear if it isn't already, I won't serve any woman who thinks she can demand it of me. I won't serve any woman who wants a weak, worthless man, or who treats her slave like a child. I'm a strong, confident man who has contributed more to this world than most people do in a lifetime. I am proud of myself and seek to be owned by a woman who is proud of my service. As far as kink play goes, CNC. Yes I have interests and needs which tend toward the extreme, but I only seek to serve a woman whose interest encompass mine as well. Anyone who thinks bdsm is all about them and that dominant doesn't need to make sure that the slave's needs are met as well is a dominant with no slave.
So if these words resonate with you, then let's talk.
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Erscheinung & Situation
Mein Körpertyp ist
Ein paar Pfunde zu viel
Meine Größe ist
5' 9 (1.75 m)
Meine Herkunft ist
Kaukasisch