What shall I do with you tonight?

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I think I'm a pretty normal ordinary guy - love taking long walks, spending nights in front of the telly with a DVD, glass of wine....except I'd have you on my lap while I make your bottom nice and red and warmed up for later....

I am looking for someone I can have that cosy 'vanilla' relationship with, but who is deep down submissive and whenever we are in public is always thinking about what may happen later when we are alone. I want to find someone my intellectual equal, but emotional submissive.

Why not chat - even if you're just curious or 'just browsing' - I won't bite (at least not yet)....

UPDATE: I have now found the most lovely partner and Kitten is the most perfect submissive I could ever wish to have. However I'm still happy to chat, be a friendly presence, guide here.

And you never know - if you're really curious I may let you chat to Kitten about one of her fantasies that is yet to be fulfilled and see if you might be the one to guide her in her first experience with another woman.....

Sign

Gemini

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

6' 1 (1.85 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Committed Relationships

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Research / Science / Engineering

My Job Title Is

Scientist will do for now....

I Make This Much In A Year

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - One Or Two

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Comedic

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Sports, Reading, Tv, Movies, Dining, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Drinking, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Meet up for coffee and a chat somewhere quiet - perhaps a little walk. Or meet in a pub, followed by a movie / bowling / something like that to try and break the ice. I don't want to be pushy - at least not on the first date.....

I've Always Wanted To Try

Bondage/domination for real (not just 5 minutes of mucking about) - what else did you expect me to say! To have someone give themselves to me for a weekend, so we can both explore our fantasies...

Next to that, I've tried most things, and I'd happily chuck away any opportunities to ride in a hot air balloon, sky dive or drive an F1 car for that opportunity.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Agnostic

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

'To leave this life having done more good than harm'

Seriously, short of finding the right life partner to share it with, I'm pretty much there.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Slapstick

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Animation, Horror

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

Auto-biography, Fiction, History, Horror, Instructional, Mystery, Science, Science Fiction, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

Scuba Diving - either here or abroad. Cinema (any film that's going), playing football/badminton/running, walking, museums. All the usual stuff (plus thinking about making that bottom of yours a bright red - I should be so lucky!).

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness

What Do You Look For?

I may have ticked all the boxes I could, but who wouldn't! If I found someone with all that - great, but unlikely.

What I really want is someone who does actually know their own mind, who is perfectly capable of running their own life perfectly well thank you - but who still chooses to give themselves over to me. Someone whose deep down submissive desires I can satisfy and who can satisfy mine.

I do like the quirky, girl next door, types - but I don't have any preferences for specific looks. Overall 'attractiveness' might be important to me, but that comes in many different forms and all I can add to that is that usually any extremes at either end in terms of size, weight, height, etc are usually not my thing.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Date