Tired of denying that I want to be a Dom
suitstiesstraps
Bedford, Texas | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I've always had my eye on the BDSM scene but never taken the plunge.
It was always something I was afraid to indulge in. I'm quite the gentleman but I have a bit of a sadistic streak, and it definitely wants to come out. Being a Dom seems to be the best way to experience it.I've lived a pretty colorful life; moved around quite a bit, did my time in the USMC, paint, read, mountain bike, volunteer, etc.By day I do a lot, and a lot of it involves being an alpha male, being in a suit, helping people, being physically active and the like, but my night life has become stale or worse, stagnant.I want to use and punish someone. I want to break someone in, instill discipline, release some of that chaotic aggression I have built up inside. I want to dance with someone on the edge of fun and fear, the edge of pain and pleasure.More importantly I want someone to be able to appreciate it, and attractive willing masochists are so hard to find in the wild. Some girls and women can't even handle a little hair pulling; much less full on degradation, punishment, and control. I want someone who feels as much a release and fulfillment in being a sub as I will being a Dom.
It was always something I was afraid to indulge in. I'm quite the gentleman but I have a bit of a sadistic streak, and it definitely wants to come out. Being a Dom seems to be the best way to experience it.I've lived a pretty colorful life; moved around quite a bit, did my time in the USMC, paint, read, mountain bike, volunteer, etc.By day I do a lot, and a lot of it involves being an alpha male, being in a suit, helping people, being physically active and the like, but my night life has become stale or worse, stagnant.I want to use and punish someone. I want to break someone in, instill discipline, release some of that chaotic aggression I have built up inside. I want to dance with someone on the edge of fun and fear, the edge of pain and pleasure.More importantly I want someone to be able to appreciate it, and attractive willing masochists are so hard to find in the wild. Some girls and women can't even handle a little hair pulling; much less full on degradation, punishment, and control. I want someone who feels as much a release and fulfillment in being a sub as I will being a Dom.
Sign
Pisces
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Muscular
My Height Is
5' 9 (1.75 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Never Married
I Have Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Legs
Body Art
Other
My Hair Is
Light Brown
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Sales / Marketing
I Make This Much In A Year
$45,000USD To $59,999USD
I Live
With Roomate(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Outcast
My Social Behavior Is
Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Exercising, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Games, Travel, Playing Cards, Volunteering, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, Extreme Sports, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Something I've never done before. Rock climbing would be fun, going to a drag show, one of those 'paint while you drink too much wine' places. Something better than 'food' or 'movies' or the ubiquitous Netflix
I've Always Wanted To Try
Anything relating to BDSM, there's a list of things that I've always though would take things to far, but based on the fact that this site even exists...must not be the case.
Also starting a business, but that's in progress.
Also starting a business, but that's in progress.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, A Troll, Cool, Obscure, Goofy
Views
My Religion Is
Christian
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is
To put myself in a position to where my friends and family never truly need anything, because I will be able to help.
To live a life filled with as many experiences as I can.
To live a life filled with as many experiences as I can.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Raunchy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rock, Metal, Electronic, Blues, Industrial, Ambient
When I Read, I Always Read
Business, Instructional, Mystery, Philosophy, Poetry, Satire, Science Fiction, Supernatural
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Flirtatiousness, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
I would love to break in a decently younger girl than I (18, 19, 20), but it doesn't have to be that. I like a variety of body types but the unifying factor will always be intelligence and boldness that turns me on.
I've got no issue using a dumb girl, but if you happen to be sexually prolific and intelligent you will have my complete attention, even if I didn't think I was looking for you.
I've got no issue using a dumb girl, but if you happen to be sexually prolific and intelligent you will have my complete attention, even if I didn't think I was looking for you.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Domination, Bondage, Just Wanna Fuck, Secretive Sex