Black male Poly Dom in Tampa FL area
InCommon
Saint Petersburg, Florida | Mann Søker A Kvinne
Grunnleggende informasjon
Jeg vil beskrive meg selv som
Non-kink
I'm a college graduate, a former military officer, a published author (in the military and my current occupational field), I've been a mentor and Board member for Big Brothers/Big Sisters, and I've traveled to over a dozen foreign countries - all of which means less and less to my ego the older and wiser I become... Equally at ease from rural camping, jeans/T-shirt & sandals to cocktail hour. Some of my best friends are not as "credentialed" as I, but I have learned more from them about life (and hence myself) than any college course or "job".
I am open to being friends with just about anyone. Our views need not be the same in order to enjoy healthy, lively debate (not argument), a game of darts/pool, or each other's company.
On any given day you can probably find me participating in one of the many local drum circles in the Tampa area. My primary drums are the djembe and dombek. With drumming come dancers! I enjoy watching traditional bellydancing as well as primal or fusion dancing - either skyclad or clothed.
Relationship-wise, I tend to move with deliberate thought, though not in haste.
If you fancy yourself the never ending center of attention, we can be friends, but are likely not compatible for a relationship. I don't aspire to be the loudest voice in any particular room - I aspire to be the voice you hear in the room.
Want to instantly gain my attention? Here are some ways:
•Smile!
•Offer me a neck/shoulder massage - and be good at it...
•Strike up a conversation... about... anything...
Kink-wise:
I am not for everyone. I tend to observe others before taking action - so don't let my initial presentation put you off. If you want to play with me, approach me and start a conversation.
I may be quick to say hello, but I will absolutely not push for you to quickly (within hours or days) be under "protection", "consideration", or in a "relationship" and prohibit your communication(s) with others. I find that "annoyingly humorous" as the doms (emphasis little d) that do so tend to be lesser experienced and/or knowledgeable, and more insecure. Further, those types of "online romances" generally fade as quickly as they are formed. If, as a submissive, you notice that pattern in yourself, please pass me by...
My BDSM style starts "between the ears" and progresses from there. I view myself as a "Thinking Dominant". BDSM play for me does not necessarily encompass sexual play. If I am interested in sexual/sensual play (with or without BDSM as a part), I will ask. If you are interested in sexual/sensual play (with or without BDSM as a part), ASK. I have the abilty to play at various levels of intensity from novice/light to advanced/heavy. If you happen to see me playing at a level that is not on par with yours, don't let that be a drawback. I can increase or decrease the intensity as negotiated. I am aware of my strengths and limitations and am not ego driven. I am open to co-topping as either the lead or secondary.
BTW, my drumming (as mentioned above) has lead to a pronounced affinity for spanking and pummeling impact play.
Limits
- Limits and Boundaries that are disclosed will be respected -
"Soft limits" are open for negotiation to be pushed (yours AND mine).
"Hard limits" are open for discussion only. I want to know the emotional and physical landmines and triggers to avoid.
I'm a college graduate, a former military officer, a published author (in the military and my current occupational field), I've been a mentor and Board member for Big Brothers/Big Sisters, and I've traveled to over a dozen foreign countries - all of which means less and less to my ego the older and wiser I become... Equally at ease from rural camping, jeans/T-shirt & sandals to cocktail hour. Some of my best friends are not as "credentialed" as I, but I have learned more from them about life (and hence myself) than any college course or "job".
I am open to being friends with just about anyone. Our views need not be the same in order to enjoy healthy, lively debate (not argument), a game of darts/pool, or each other's company.
On any given day you can probably find me participating in one of the many local drum circles in the Tampa area. My primary drums are the djembe and dombek. With drumming come dancers! I enjoy watching traditional bellydancing as well as primal or fusion dancing - either skyclad or clothed.
Relationship-wise, I tend to move with deliberate thought, though not in haste.
If you fancy yourself the never ending center of attention, we can be friends, but are likely not compatible for a relationship. I don't aspire to be the loudest voice in any particular room - I aspire to be the voice you hear in the room.
Want to instantly gain my attention? Here are some ways:
•Smile!
•Offer me a neck/shoulder massage - and be good at it...
•Strike up a conversation... about... anything...
Kink-wise:
I am not for everyone. I tend to observe others before taking action - so don't let my initial presentation put you off. If you want to play with me, approach me and start a conversation.
I may be quick to say hello, but I will absolutely not push for you to quickly (within hours or days) be under "protection", "consideration", or in a "relationship" and prohibit your communication(s) with others. I find that "annoyingly humorous" as the doms (emphasis little d) that do so tend to be lesser experienced and/or knowledgeable, and more insecure. Further, those types of "online romances" generally fade as quickly as they are formed. If, as a submissive, you notice that pattern in yourself, please pass me by...
My BDSM style starts "between the ears" and progresses from there. I view myself as a "Thinking Dominant". BDSM play for me does not necessarily encompass sexual play. If I am interested in sexual/sensual play (with or without BDSM as a part), I will ask. If you are interested in sexual/sensual play (with or without BDSM as a part), ASK. I have the abilty to play at various levels of intensity from novice/light to advanced/heavy. If you happen to see me playing at a level that is not on par with yours, don't let that be a drawback. I can increase or decrease the intensity as negotiated. I am aware of my strengths and limitations and am not ego driven. I am open to co-topping as either the lead or secondary.
BTW, my drumming (as mentioned above) has lead to a pronounced affinity for spanking and pummeling impact play.
Limits
- Limits and Boundaries that are disclosed will be respected -
"Soft limits" are open for negotiation to be pushed (yours AND mine).
"Hard limits" are open for discussion only. I want to know the emotional and physical landmines and triggers to avoid.
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Utseende & Situasjon
My Kroppstype er
Muskuløs
Min høyde er
5 '7 (1,7 M)
Øynene mine er
Brun
Min etnisitet er
Afroamerikaner
Min Sivilsituasjon er
Fast forhold
Jeg har barn
Nei
Jeg vil ha barn
Nei
Min beste egenskap er
Smil
Mitt hår er
Svart
Jeg har en eller flere av disse
Ingen dyr
Villing til å flytte
Nei
Status
Min Utdanningsnivå Er
Universitetsgrad
Min nåværende arbeidssituasjon er
Selvstendig næringsdrivende
Jeg er en røyker
Nei
Jeg drikker
Ja - Sosialt
Personlighet
Når jeg gikk på skolen, var jeg
Den stille
Min sosiale atferd er
Flørtende, Vennlig, Observant, Reservert
Mine interesser og hobbier er
Kamping, Lage mat, Lære, Filmer, Musikk, Fotografi, Lese, Reise
Min idé av å ha det gøy er
Være med venner, Gå på konsert, Lese en bok, Slappe av, Kino, Prøve nye ting
Mine venner beskriver meg som
Vennlig, En andre ønsker å være, En flørt
Visninger
Min religion er
Åndelig men ikke religiøs
Min humoristiske sans er
Smart, Tørr / Sarkastisk
Leter etter
Hva finner du attraktivt?
Empati, flørtende, Flott utseende, Intelligens, Spontanitet, Omtanksfull, vett
Hva slag forhold søker du?
Venn, Intim, Forpliktet