All That Matters Is How it Feels
onedayasalion
Jersey City, New Jersey | Mies Hae A Naista
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I am very much into function over form...it's far more important how it FEELS , rather than how it sounds or looks .The way that I am and they way I express that is not a result of wanting to be part of a "scene" or because of anything other than who I am through & through.... ...That I clearly fit into the category labeled Dominant. is not because I follow a format, a punch list, want to play a role or be part of a scene..it's simply because I have no choice or desire to be any other way!
I see little point in long drawn out email exchanges, or one line repartees back & forth......2 or 3 emails should be more than enough to be wanting to talk to me on the phone , hear my voice ( as I would want to hear yours) and see if the real begins to match the words...... if that works for us both..we meet ...as the chemistry is either going to be obvious and will be there or not.
You should be ,geographically, close enough that you can meet me or be in my zip code within an hour or so....also if you are unable or choose to not provide a recent picture of yourself when I ask for it....then again your either not interested enough or are here for some reason other than the obvious ....which is to meet someone that can fulfill your needs and hopefully more. Finally: You should be interested in doing and being the way I want ( and need you to be) you to be and do ..not because I say I want it that way..but because YOU want it that way!
If you know who and how you are and you understand more than just tag & titles you know that to submissive is not to be a doormat or weak or simply to say yes dear or yes master...it is , in fact a choice, a desire a need to be with someone who is strong enough for you to truly let yourself go......release is about giving up the the power you have because you trust..trust is as loyalty not lightly given but once obtained , unquestioned.
I know who I am..the good and the bad...and I like who I am and you will know that.....there will be no confusion about what I want and what I expect ... .....you are a woman who knows when it's time to be you and her your own.....and when it's time to be mine.
In the "Real World."... short term or long term ( if it 's 'right" it will be long term) , it's as simple as what works and feels right..... I know what I like ( and what I don't ) and how I like it ........If you're honest with yourself , you know the same about you.
Of course "Long term" and "Tonight" are different concepts but while "punch lists" may fit or not , If there's real chemistry (or at least enough to want to see what we, to each other, taste like, feel like, smell like) and after determining that we really care enough to find out the "who we are", the "where we are" and the "where we're headed " ... we can then deal with what we do agree and what we agree to disagree on.
There's no "working" on chemistry...it's either there or it's not! It's not only about physical attraction ( sex or sexuality) but without it what's the point? So until that's established there's no reason to waste each other's time with pro forma ( no pun intended). "beating around the bush" ....the switch is either on or off and while, of course very little is black & white , everything is a lighter or darker shade of gray ..so , again, if you trust your the right choice is always right in front of your face!
I'm really tired of the posers & wannabe's ( for me ,female & I'm sure for you male) that troll these sites..........but nothing ventured nothing gained........and for me it's, no question, better one hour as a lion..than a lifetime as a lamb.
Everyone says they're different ..I really am ..and you'll have to be also.....in order to wan to know more about me and more importantly for me to want to know more about you.
I see little point in long drawn out email exchanges, or one line repartees back & forth......2 or 3 emails should be more than enough to be wanting to talk to me on the phone , hear my voice ( as I would want to hear yours) and see if the real begins to match the words...... if that works for us both..we meet ...as the chemistry is either going to be obvious and will be there or not.
You should be ,geographically, close enough that you can meet me or be in my zip code within an hour or so....also if you are unable or choose to not provide a recent picture of yourself when I ask for it....then again your either not interested enough or are here for some reason other than the obvious ....which is to meet someone that can fulfill your needs and hopefully more. Finally: You should be interested in doing and being the way I want ( and need you to be) you to be and do ..not because I say I want it that way..but because YOU want it that way!
If you know who and how you are and you understand more than just tag & titles you know that to submissive is not to be a doormat or weak or simply to say yes dear or yes master...it is , in fact a choice, a desire a need to be with someone who is strong enough for you to truly let yourself go......release is about giving up the the power you have because you trust..trust is as loyalty not lightly given but once obtained , unquestioned.
I know who I am..the good and the bad...and I like who I am and you will know that.....there will be no confusion about what I want and what I expect ... .....you are a woman who knows when it's time to be you and her your own.....and when it's time to be mine.
In the "Real World."... short term or long term ( if it 's 'right" it will be long term) , it's as simple as what works and feels right..... I know what I like ( and what I don't ) and how I like it ........If you're honest with yourself , you know the same about you.
Of course "Long term" and "Tonight" are different concepts but while "punch lists" may fit or not , If there's real chemistry (or at least enough to want to see what we, to each other, taste like, feel like, smell like) and after determining that we really care enough to find out the "who we are", the "where we are" and the "where we're headed " ... we can then deal with what we do agree and what we agree to disagree on.
There's no "working" on chemistry...it's either there or it's not! It's not only about physical attraction ( sex or sexuality) but without it what's the point? So until that's established there's no reason to waste each other's time with pro forma ( no pun intended). "beating around the bush" ....the switch is either on or off and while, of course very little is black & white , everything is a lighter or darker shade of gray ..so , again, if you trust your the right choice is always right in front of your face!
I'm really tired of the posers & wannabe's ( for me ,female & I'm sure for you male) that troll these sites..........but nothing ventured nothing gained........and for me it's, no question, better one hour as a lion..than a lifetime as a lamb.
Everyone says they're different ..I really am ..and you'll have to be also.....in order to wan to know more about me and more importantly for me to want to know more about you.
Kirjaudu
Oinas
Ulkonäkö ja Tilanne
Vartalonmallini on
Keskiverto
Pituuteni on
6' 0 (1.83 m)
Silmienvärini on
Ruskea
Etninen taustani on
Valkoihoinen
Aviosäätyni on
Sinkku
Minulla on lapsia
Ei
Haluan lapsia
Ei
Paras puoleni on
Silmät
Ulkonäkö
En edes harkitsisi
Hiukseni ovat
Suolaa ja Pippuria
Minulla on yksi tai kaksi tällaista
Kissa
Olen valmis muuttamaan
Ei
Tila
Koulutukseni taso on
Korkeakoulu tutkinto
Työllisyys tilanteeni on
Yrittäjä
Erikoistun
Taide / Musiikki/ Kirjallisuus
Työ tittelini on
Principal
Tuloni per vuosi
Enemmän kuin $150,000USD
Asun
Yksin
Kotona
Ei meteliä
Tupakoin
Ei
Juon
Kyllä - Seurassa
Persoonallisuus
Yläasteella olin
Luokan Pelle
Sosiaalinen käyttäytymiseni
Riehakas, Sivustaseuraaja, Anti - sosiaalinen, Ystävällinen, Koominen, Juhlien järjestäjä, Bileiden aloittaja, Flirttaileva, Aina menossa, Musta, Outo
Kiinnostuksen kohteet ja Harrastukseni ovat
Taide & Käsityöt, Musiikki, Valokuvat, Kokkaus, Tietokoneet
Käsitykseni mukavasta ajanvietteestä on
Kavereiden kanssa hengailu, Kotona oleskelu, Rentoutuminen
Kaverini kuvailevat minun olevan
Ongelmien löytäjä, suosittu, Täydellinen, Roisi, Epävarma, Hassu, Flirtti
Katsomukset
Uskontoni on
Hengellinen mutta ei uskonnollinen
Käyn säännöllisesti
Ei koskaan
Tavoitteeni elämässäni on
I'll tell you when both of us care enough to care!
Minun tapainen huumori on
Älykäs, Kuiva / Sarkastinen, Epävarma, Roisi, Sadistinen
Maku
Televisiosta katson
Uutiset
Kun menen elokuviin, lähden katsomaan
Olen näyttelijä
Kun kuuntelen musiikkia, kuuntelen aina
Rock musiikki, Klassinen, Blues musiikki
Kun luen, luen aina
Olen Kirjailija
Käsitykseni hauskanpidosta on
My idea of "FUN"? C'mon give me break!
Etsii
Mikä sinua vetää puoleensa?
Viisaus, Hyvä ulkonäkö, Huumori, Hyvät taidot, Kaljuus, Spontaanisuus, Nokkela
Mitä etsit?
Maybe you...there's no punch list I need to match!
Minkälaista suhdetta etsit?
Oraali seksi, Ylivalta, Sidonta