All That Matters Is How it Feels
onedayasalion
Jersey City, New Jersey | Man Letar efter Kvinna
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I am very much into function over form...it's far more important how it FEELS , rather than how it sounds or looks .The way that I am and they way I express that is not a result of wanting to be part of a "scene" or because of anything other than who I am through & through.... ...That I clearly fit into the category labeled Dominant. is not because I follow a format, a punch list, want to play a role or be part of a scene..it's simply because I have no choice or desire to be any other way!
I see little point in long drawn out email exchanges, or one line repartees back & forth......2 or 3 emails should be more than enough to be wanting to talk to me on the phone , hear my voice ( as I would want to hear yours) and see if the real begins to match the words...... if that works for us both..we meet ...as the chemistry is either going to be obvious and will be there or not.
You should be ,geographically, close enough that you can meet me or be in my zip code within an hour or so....also if you are unable or choose to not provide a recent picture of yourself when I ask for it....then again your either not interested enough or are here for some reason other than the obvious ....which is to meet someone that can fulfill your needs and hopefully more. Finally: You should be interested in doing and being the way I want ( and need you to be) you to be and do ..not because I say I want it that way..but because YOU want it that way!
If you know who and how you are and you understand more than just tag & titles you know that to submissive is not to be a doormat or weak or simply to say yes dear or yes master...it is , in fact a choice, a desire a need to be with someone who is strong enough for you to truly let yourself go......release is about giving up the the power you have because you trust..trust is as loyalty not lightly given but once obtained , unquestioned.
I know who I am..the good and the bad...and I like who I am and you will know that.....there will be no confusion about what I want and what I expect ... .....you are a woman who knows when it's time to be you and her your own.....and when it's time to be mine.
In the "Real World."... short term or long term ( if it 's 'right" it will be long term) , it's as simple as what works and feels right..... I know what I like ( and what I don't ) and how I like it ........If you're honest with yourself , you know the same about you.
Of course "Long term" and "Tonight" are different concepts but while "punch lists" may fit or not , If there's real chemistry (or at least enough to want to see what we, to each other, taste like, feel like, smell like) and after determining that we really care enough to find out the "who we are", the "where we are" and the "where we're headed " ... we can then deal with what we do agree and what we agree to disagree on.
There's no "working" on chemistry...it's either there or it's not! It's not only about physical attraction ( sex or sexuality) but without it what's the point? So until that's established there's no reason to waste each other's time with pro forma ( no pun intended). "beating around the bush" ....the switch is either on or off and while, of course very little is black & white , everything is a lighter or darker shade of gray ..so , again, if you trust your the right choice is always right in front of your face!
I'm really tired of the posers & wannabe's ( for me ,female & I'm sure for you male) that troll these sites..........but nothing ventured nothing gained........and for me it's, no question, better one hour as a lion..than a lifetime as a lamb.
Everyone says they're different ..I really am ..and you'll have to be also.....in order to wan to know more about me and more importantly for me to want to know more about you.
I see little point in long drawn out email exchanges, or one line repartees back & forth......2 or 3 emails should be more than enough to be wanting to talk to me on the phone , hear my voice ( as I would want to hear yours) and see if the real begins to match the words...... if that works for us both..we meet ...as the chemistry is either going to be obvious and will be there or not.
You should be ,geographically, close enough that you can meet me or be in my zip code within an hour or so....also if you are unable or choose to not provide a recent picture of yourself when I ask for it....then again your either not interested enough or are here for some reason other than the obvious ....which is to meet someone that can fulfill your needs and hopefully more. Finally: You should be interested in doing and being the way I want ( and need you to be) you to be and do ..not because I say I want it that way..but because YOU want it that way!
If you know who and how you are and you understand more than just tag & titles you know that to submissive is not to be a doormat or weak or simply to say yes dear or yes master...it is , in fact a choice, a desire a need to be with someone who is strong enough for you to truly let yourself go......release is about giving up the the power you have because you trust..trust is as loyalty not lightly given but once obtained , unquestioned.
I know who I am..the good and the bad...and I like who I am and you will know that.....there will be no confusion about what I want and what I expect ... .....you are a woman who knows when it's time to be you and her your own.....and when it's time to be mine.
In the "Real World."... short term or long term ( if it 's 'right" it will be long term) , it's as simple as what works and feels right..... I know what I like ( and what I don't ) and how I like it ........If you're honest with yourself , you know the same about you.
Of course "Long term" and "Tonight" are different concepts but while "punch lists" may fit or not , If there's real chemistry (or at least enough to want to see what we, to each other, taste like, feel like, smell like) and after determining that we really care enough to find out the "who we are", the "where we are" and the "where we're headed " ... we can then deal with what we do agree and what we agree to disagree on.
There's no "working" on chemistry...it's either there or it's not! It's not only about physical attraction ( sex or sexuality) but without it what's the point? So until that's established there's no reason to waste each other's time with pro forma ( no pun intended). "beating around the bush" ....the switch is either on or off and while, of course very little is black & white , everything is a lighter or darker shade of gray ..so , again, if you trust your the right choice is always right in front of your face!
I'm really tired of the posers & wannabe's ( for me ,female & I'm sure for you male) that troll these sites..........but nothing ventured nothing gained........and for me it's, no question, better one hour as a lion..than a lifetime as a lamb.
Everyone says they're different ..I really am ..and you'll have to be also.....in order to wan to know more about me and more importantly for me to want to know more about you.
Stjärntecken
Väduren
Utseende & situation
Min kroppstyp är
Medelmåttig
Min längd är
186 cm
Mina ögon är
Bruna
Min etnicitet är
Kaukasisk
Mitt civilstånd är
Singel
Jag har barn
Nej
Jag vill ha barn
Nej
Min bästa kroppsdel är
Ögon
Kroppskonst
Skulle aldrig ens tänka tanken
Mitt hår är
Gråsprängt
Jag har en eller flera av dessa
Katt
Villig att flytta
Nej
Status
Min utbildningsnivå är
Universitetsexamen
Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är
Egen-företagare
Min specialitet är
Konst / Musik / Litteratur
Min arbetstitel är
Principal
Jag tjänar så här mycket per år
Mer än en och en halv miljon kronor
Jag bor
Ensam
Hemma
Inget oljud
Jag är rökare
Nej
Jag dricker
Ja - feströker
Personlighet
I skolan var jag
Klassens clown
Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är
Livlig, Uppmärksam, Anti-social, Vänlig, Komiker, Feststartare, Eldstål, Flirtig, Utåtriktad, Mörk, Konstig
Mina intressen och hobbies är
Konst & Hantverk, Musik, Fotografering, Matlagning, Datorer
Att ha kul innebär för mig
Umgås med vänner, Stanna hemma, Tar det lugnt
Mina vänner tycker att jag är
Bråkstake, Cool, Perfekt, Oanständig, Obskyr, Tramsig, En flirt
Åsikter
Min religion är
Spirituell men inte religiös
Jag går i kyrkan
Aldrig
Mitt mål i livet är
I'll tell you when both of us care enough to care!
Min humor är
Klok, Torr / Sarkastisk, Obskyr, Oanständig, Sadistisk
Smak
På TV tittar jag alltid på
Nyheter
När jag går på bio ser jag alltid
Jag är filmskådespelare
När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på
Rock, Klassisk, Blues
När jag läser föredrar jag följande:
Jag är författare
Det jag tycker är kul är
My idea of "FUN"? C'mon give me break!
Letar efter
Vad tycker du är attraktivt?
Intelligens, Snygga drag, Humor, Enorm skicklighet, Djärvhet, Spontanitet, Kvickhet
Vad letar du efter?
Maybe you...there's no punch list I need to match!
Vilken form av förhållande söker du?
Oralsex, Dominans, Bondage