All That Matters Is How it Feels
onedayasalion
Jersey City, New Jersey | Mężczyzna Szukam Kobieta
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I am very much into function over form...it's far more important how it FEELS , rather than how it sounds or looks .The way that I am and they way I express that is not a result of wanting to be part of a "scene" or because of anything other than who I am through & through.... ...That I clearly fit into the category labeled Dominant. is not because I follow a format, a punch list, want to play a role or be part of a scene..it's simply because I have no choice or desire to be any other way!
I see little point in long drawn out email exchanges, or one line repartees back & forth......2 or 3 emails should be more than enough to be wanting to talk to me on the phone , hear my voice ( as I would want to hear yours) and see if the real begins to match the words...... if that works for us both..we meet ...as the chemistry is either going to be obvious and will be there or not.
You should be ,geographically, close enough that you can meet me or be in my zip code within an hour or so....also if you are unable or choose to not provide a recent picture of yourself when I ask for it....then again your either not interested enough or are here for some reason other than the obvious ....which is to meet someone that can fulfill your needs and hopefully more. Finally: You should be interested in doing and being the way I want ( and need you to be) you to be and do ..not because I say I want it that way..but because YOU want it that way!
If you know who and how you are and you understand more than just tag & titles you know that to submissive is not to be a doormat or weak or simply to say yes dear or yes master...it is , in fact a choice, a desire a need to be with someone who is strong enough for you to truly let yourself go......release is about giving up the the power you have because you trust..trust is as loyalty not lightly given but once obtained , unquestioned.
I know who I am..the good and the bad...and I like who I am and you will know that.....there will be no confusion about what I want and what I expect ... .....you are a woman who knows when it's time to be you and her your own.....and when it's time to be mine.
In the "Real World."... short term or long term ( if it 's 'right" it will be long term) , it's as simple as what works and feels right..... I know what I like ( and what I don't ) and how I like it ........If you're honest with yourself , you know the same about you.
Of course "Long term" and "Tonight" are different concepts but while "punch lists" may fit or not , If there's real chemistry (or at least enough to want to see what we, to each other, taste like, feel like, smell like) and after determining that we really care enough to find out the "who we are", the "where we are" and the "where we're headed " ... we can then deal with what we do agree and what we agree to disagree on.
There's no "working" on chemistry...it's either there or it's not! It's not only about physical attraction ( sex or sexuality) but without it what's the point? So until that's established there's no reason to waste each other's time with pro forma ( no pun intended). "beating around the bush" ....the switch is either on or off and while, of course very little is black & white , everything is a lighter or darker shade of gray ..so , again, if you trust your the right choice is always right in front of your face!
I'm really tired of the posers & wannabe's ( for me ,female & I'm sure for you male) that troll these sites..........but nothing ventured nothing gained........and for me it's, no question, better one hour as a lion..than a lifetime as a lamb.
Everyone says they're different ..I really am ..and you'll have to be also.....in order to wan to know more about me and more importantly for me to want to know more about you.
I see little point in long drawn out email exchanges, or one line repartees back & forth......2 or 3 emails should be more than enough to be wanting to talk to me on the phone , hear my voice ( as I would want to hear yours) and see if the real begins to match the words...... if that works for us both..we meet ...as the chemistry is either going to be obvious and will be there or not.
You should be ,geographically, close enough that you can meet me or be in my zip code within an hour or so....also if you are unable or choose to not provide a recent picture of yourself when I ask for it....then again your either not interested enough or are here for some reason other than the obvious ....which is to meet someone that can fulfill your needs and hopefully more. Finally: You should be interested in doing and being the way I want ( and need you to be) you to be and do ..not because I say I want it that way..but because YOU want it that way!
If you know who and how you are and you understand more than just tag & titles you know that to submissive is not to be a doormat or weak or simply to say yes dear or yes master...it is , in fact a choice, a desire a need to be with someone who is strong enough for you to truly let yourself go......release is about giving up the the power you have because you trust..trust is as loyalty not lightly given but once obtained , unquestioned.
I know who I am..the good and the bad...and I like who I am and you will know that.....there will be no confusion about what I want and what I expect ... .....you are a woman who knows when it's time to be you and her your own.....and when it's time to be mine.
In the "Real World."... short term or long term ( if it 's 'right" it will be long term) , it's as simple as what works and feels right..... I know what I like ( and what I don't ) and how I like it ........If you're honest with yourself , you know the same about you.
Of course "Long term" and "Tonight" are different concepts but while "punch lists" may fit or not , If there's real chemistry (or at least enough to want to see what we, to each other, taste like, feel like, smell like) and after determining that we really care enough to find out the "who we are", the "where we are" and the "where we're headed " ... we can then deal with what we do agree and what we agree to disagree on.
There's no "working" on chemistry...it's either there or it's not! It's not only about physical attraction ( sex or sexuality) but without it what's the point? So until that's established there's no reason to waste each other's time with pro forma ( no pun intended). "beating around the bush" ....the switch is either on or off and while, of course very little is black & white , everything is a lighter or darker shade of gray ..so , again, if you trust your the right choice is always right in front of your face!
I'm really tired of the posers & wannabe's ( for me ,female & I'm sure for you male) that troll these sites..........but nothing ventured nothing gained........and for me it's, no question, better one hour as a lion..than a lifetime as a lamb.
Everyone says they're different ..I really am ..and you'll have to be also.....in order to wan to know more about me and more importantly for me to want to know more about you.
Znak
Baran
Wygląd & Sytuacja
Mój typ budowy
Przeciętny
Mój wzrost
6' 0 (183 cm)
Moje Oczy Są
Brązowy
Moje pochodzenie
kaukaskie
Mój Stan Cywilny to
Samotny/ Single
Mam Dzieci
Nie
Chcę Mieć Dzieci
Nie
Moje Najlepsze Zalety To
Oczy
Budowa Ciała
Nawet Bym o Tym Nie Rozmawiał
Moje Włosy Są
Mieszany
Mam Jedną Lub Więcej Z Tych Rzeczy
Kot
Jestem Skłonny Do Przeprowadzki
Nie
Status
Mój Poziom Edukacji To
Dyplom Ukończenia Studiów Wyższych
Mój Aktualny Stan Zatrudnienia To
Własna Działalność Gospodarcza
Moja Specjalność To
Sztuka/Muzyka/Literatura
Mój Tytuł Zawodowy To
Principal
Tyle Zarabiam Rocznie
Więcej Niż $150,000USD
Mieszkam
Sam/Sama
W Domu
Nie Ma Hałasu
Jestem Palaczem
Nie
Piję Alkohol
Tak - Towarzysko
Osobowość
W Liceum Byłem Uważany Za
Klasowy Klown
Moje Zachowanie Społeczne Jest
Niesforny, Obserwujący, Antyspołeczny, Przyjacielski, Żartowniś, Imprezowicz, Wybuchowy, Flirciarz, Otwarty, Dark, Dziwna
Moje Zainteresowania I Hobby To
Sztuka & Rękodzieło, Muzyka, Fotografia, Gotowanie, Komputery
Mój Pomysł Na Dobrze Spędzony Czas To
Spędzanie Czasu z Przyjaciółmi, Przebywanie w Domu, Relaks
Moi Znajomi Opisują Mnie Jako Osobę
Kłopotliwy, Wyluzowany, Ideał, Chłop Ze Wsi, Ponury, Zabawny, Flirt
Poglądy
Moja Religia To
Duchowy, Ale Nie Religijny
Uczęszczam w Nabożeństwach
Nigdy
Mój Cel Życiowy To
I'll tell you when both of us care enough to care!
Mój Rodzaj Humoru To
Mądry, Oschły/Sarkastyczny, Ponury, Chłop Ze Wsi, Sadystyczny
Gust, Smak
W Telewizji Zawsze Oglądam
Wiadomości
Jak Idę Do Kina, To z Reguły Oglądam
Jestem Aktorem
Kiedy Słucham Muzyki, Zawsze Słucham
Rock, Klasyczna, Blues
Gdy Czytam Zawsze Sięgam Po
Jestem Autorem Książek
Mój Pomysł Na Rozrywkę To
My idea of "FUN"? C'mon give me break!
Szukam
Co Jest Dla Ciebie Atrakcyjne?
Inteligencja, Atrakcyjny Wygląd, Poczucie Humoru, Doskonałe Umiejętności, Śmiałość, Spontaniczność, Dowcipny
Czego Szukasz?
Maybe you...there's no punch list I need to match!
Jakiego Szukasz Związku?
Seks Oralny, Dominacja, Bondage/Niewola