All That Matters Is How it Feels
onedayasalion
Jersey City, New Jersey | Man Op zoek naar een Vrouw
Algemene Informatie
Ik beschrijf mezelf als:
I am very much into function over form...it's far more important how it FEELS , rather than how it sounds or looks .The way that I am and they way I express that is not a result of wanting to be part of a "scene" or because of anything other than who I am through & through.... ...That I clearly fit into the category labeled Dominant. is not because I follow a format, a punch list, want to play a role or be part of a scene..it's simply because I have no choice or desire to be any other way!
I see little point in long drawn out email exchanges, or one line repartees back & forth......2 or 3 emails should be more than enough to be wanting to talk to me on the phone , hear my voice ( as I would want to hear yours) and see if the real begins to match the words...... if that works for us both..we meet ...as the chemistry is either going to be obvious and will be there or not.
You should be ,geographically, close enough that you can meet me or be in my zip code within an hour or so....also if you are unable or choose to not provide a recent picture of yourself when I ask for it....then again your either not interested enough or are here for some reason other than the obvious ....which is to meet someone that can fulfill your needs and hopefully more. Finally: You should be interested in doing and being the way I want ( and need you to be) you to be and do ..not because I say I want it that way..but because YOU want it that way!
If you know who and how you are and you understand more than just tag & titles you know that to submissive is not to be a doormat or weak or simply to say yes dear or yes master...it is , in fact a choice, a desire a need to be with someone who is strong enough for you to truly let yourself go......release is about giving up the the power you have because you trust..trust is as loyalty not lightly given but once obtained , unquestioned.
I know who I am..the good and the bad...and I like who I am and you will know that.....there will be no confusion about what I want and what I expect ... .....you are a woman who knows when it's time to be you and her your own.....and when it's time to be mine.
In the "Real World."... short term or long term ( if it 's 'right" it will be long term) , it's as simple as what works and feels right..... I know what I like ( and what I don't ) and how I like it ........If you're honest with yourself , you know the same about you.
Of course "Long term" and "Tonight" are different concepts but while "punch lists" may fit or not , If there's real chemistry (or at least enough to want to see what we, to each other, taste like, feel like, smell like) and after determining that we really care enough to find out the "who we are", the "where we are" and the "where we're headed " ... we can then deal with what we do agree and what we agree to disagree on.
There's no "working" on chemistry...it's either there or it's not! It's not only about physical attraction ( sex or sexuality) but without it what's the point? So until that's established there's no reason to waste each other's time with pro forma ( no pun intended). "beating around the bush" ....the switch is either on or off and while, of course very little is black & white , everything is a lighter or darker shade of gray ..so , again, if you trust your the right choice is always right in front of your face!
I'm really tired of the posers & wannabe's ( for me ,female & I'm sure for you male) that troll these sites..........but nothing ventured nothing gained........and for me it's, no question, better one hour as a lion..than a lifetime as a lamb.
Everyone says they're different ..I really am ..and you'll have to be also.....in order to wan to know more about me and more importantly for me to want to know more about you.
I see little point in long drawn out email exchanges, or one line repartees back & forth......2 or 3 emails should be more than enough to be wanting to talk to me on the phone , hear my voice ( as I would want to hear yours) and see if the real begins to match the words...... if that works for us both..we meet ...as the chemistry is either going to be obvious and will be there or not.
You should be ,geographically, close enough that you can meet me or be in my zip code within an hour or so....also if you are unable or choose to not provide a recent picture of yourself when I ask for it....then again your either not interested enough or are here for some reason other than the obvious ....which is to meet someone that can fulfill your needs and hopefully more. Finally: You should be interested in doing and being the way I want ( and need you to be) you to be and do ..not because I say I want it that way..but because YOU want it that way!
If you know who and how you are and you understand more than just tag & titles you know that to submissive is not to be a doormat or weak or simply to say yes dear or yes master...it is , in fact a choice, a desire a need to be with someone who is strong enough for you to truly let yourself go......release is about giving up the the power you have because you trust..trust is as loyalty not lightly given but once obtained , unquestioned.
I know who I am..the good and the bad...and I like who I am and you will know that.....there will be no confusion about what I want and what I expect ... .....you are a woman who knows when it's time to be you and her your own.....and when it's time to be mine.
In the "Real World."... short term or long term ( if it 's 'right" it will be long term) , it's as simple as what works and feels right..... I know what I like ( and what I don't ) and how I like it ........If you're honest with yourself , you know the same about you.
Of course "Long term" and "Tonight" are different concepts but while "punch lists" may fit or not , If there's real chemistry (or at least enough to want to see what we, to each other, taste like, feel like, smell like) and after determining that we really care enough to find out the "who we are", the "where we are" and the "where we're headed " ... we can then deal with what we do agree and what we agree to disagree on.
There's no "working" on chemistry...it's either there or it's not! It's not only about physical attraction ( sex or sexuality) but without it what's the point? So until that's established there's no reason to waste each other's time with pro forma ( no pun intended). "beating around the bush" ....the switch is either on or off and while, of course very little is black & white , everything is a lighter or darker shade of gray ..so , again, if you trust your the right choice is always right in front of your face!
I'm really tired of the posers & wannabe's ( for me ,female & I'm sure for you male) that troll these sites..........but nothing ventured nothing gained........and for me it's, no question, better one hour as a lion..than a lifetime as a lamb.
Everyone says they're different ..I really am ..and you'll have to be also.....in order to wan to know more about me and more importantly for me to want to know more about you.
Sterrenbeeld
Ram
Uiterlijk & Situatie
Mijn Lichaamstype Is
Gemiddeld
Mijn Lengte Is
6' 0 (1.83 m)
Mijn Ogen Zijn
Bruin
Mijn Ethniciteit Is
Blank
Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is
Single
Ik Heb Kinderen
Nee
Ik Wil Kinderen
Nee
Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is
Ogen
Body Art
Ik zou er niet eens aan denken
Mijn Haar Is
Halfblond
Ik heb één of meer van deze
Kat
Ben je bereid te verhuizen?
Nee
Status
Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is
Bachelor
Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is
Zelfstandig
Mijn specialisatie is
Kunst / Muziek / Literatuur
Mijn functie is:
Principal
Mijn jaarsalaris is:
Meer dan €150.000
Ik Woon
Alleen
Bij mij thuis
Is het rustig
Ik Ben Een Roker
Nee
Ik Drink
Ja - Als ik uitga
Persoonlijkheid
Op de middelbare school was ik
Klassenclown
In sociale situaties ben ik
Luidruchtig, Opmerkzaam, Anti-sociaal, Vriendelijk, Grappig, Feestbeest, Baas, Flirterig, Gezellig, Donker, Raar
Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn
Knutselen, Muziek, Fotografie, Koken, Computers
Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is
Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Relaxen
Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als
Een herrieschopper, Cool, Perfect, Ranzig, Obscuur, Gek, Een Flirt
Meningen
Mijn Geloof Is
Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus
Ik Ga Naar Diensten
Nooit
Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is
I'll tell you when both of us care enough to care!
Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is
Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Obscuur, Ranzig, Sadistischh
Smaak
Op tv kijk ik:
Nieuws
In de bioscoop kijk ik:
Ik ben een filmacteur
Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar
Rock, Klassiek, Blues
Ik lees graag
Ik ben een schrijver
Mijn Idee Van Plezier is
My idea of "FUN"? C'mon give me break!
Zoekt
Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?
Intelligentie, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Goeie Vaardigheden, Moed, Spontaniteit, Gevatheid
Wat zoek je?
Maybe you...there's no punch list I need to match!
Waar ben je naar op zoek?
Orale Seks, Dominatie, Bondage