Just an ordinary man.
doctorsimple
Chicago, Illinois | Hombre Buscando Mujer
Información Básica
Me describiría a mi mismo como
I have been bdsm-aware pretty much as long as I can remember. My experience to date has been limited to personal relationships; I've never been part of a bdsm scene, or any scene, really. I don't place much stock in scenes, labels, movements, or paradigms. But I am starting to explore the local scene a bit.
The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. I'm a musician, a geek, an amateur intellectual, an amateur viking, a changeling, an absent-minded professor. I am also a respectable middle-class guy, although I'm not entirely sure how that happened. I'm pretty down-to-earth for someone who uses the word 'paradigm' in an online profile. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences.
I'm looking for play, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.
The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. I'm a musician, a geek, an amateur intellectual, an amateur viking, a changeling, an absent-minded professor. I am also a respectable middle-class guy, although I'm not entirely sure how that happened. I'm pretty down-to-earth for someone who uses the word 'paradigm' in an online profile. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences.
I'm looking for play, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.
Signo
Virgo
Apariencia y Situación
Mi tipo de cuerpo es
Normal
Mi altura es
6' 0 (1.83 m)
Mis ojos son
Verdes
Mi raza es
Caucásico
Mi situación marital es
Soltero
Tengo hijos
No
Quiero tener hijos
No
Mi Mejor característica es
Pies
Piercings, tatuajes…
Piercings secretos, Tatuaje visible
Mi pelo es
Marrones
Tengo uno o más de estos
Gato
Me iría a vivir a otro lugar
No
Estatus
Mi nivel de estudios / educación es
Diploma Unversidad
Mi situación laboral actual es
Tiempo Completo
Mi especialidad es
Computadoras / Electrónica
Mi trabajo es como
Web Developer
Vivo en
Solo/a
En casa
Los amigos visitan ocasionalmente
Soy Fumador
No
Soy Bebedor
Si - A menudo
Personalidad
En el instituto, era
Forajido
Socialmente, me describiría como
Reservados, Amistoso, Cómico, Oscuro, Extraña / Rarezas
Mis aficiones e intereses son
Leer, Aprender, Música, Juegos, Computadoras
Mi idea de un rato estupendo es
Probar cosas nuevas, Beber, Leer un Libro, Ir a un Concierto, Ir a un Museo
Siempre he querido probar
Skydiving.
Mis amigos me describen como
Genial
Puntos de Vista
Mi religión es
Espiritual pero no religioso
Mi meta en la vida
To use my gifts well, find my place, leave things better than I found them, and try to understand that which can be understood. Also I like to make very loud noises occasionally.
Mi sentido del humor es
Inteligente, Seco / Sarcástico, Oscuro
Gustos
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Soy un artista musical
Mi idea de diversión es
Playing music is my main non-work related pursuit. I go see live music a lot, of all different kinds (or maybe just one kind - as Duke Ellington said once "There are just two kinds of music, good music and bad music.")I listen to NPR quite a lot, I play video games more than I should and I go out dancing a lot less than I should.
Estoy buscando a
¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Inteligencia, Buena Imagen, Humor, Empatía, Rarezas, Espontaneidad, Ingenio, Detallista
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Dominación, Bondage, Cita, Sólo quiero follar