Just an ordinary man.

Je me décrirais comme

I have been bdsm-aware pretty much as long as I can remember. My experience to date has been limited to personal relationships; I've never been part of a bdsm scene, or any scene, really. I don't place much stock in scenes, labels, movements, or paradigms. But I am starting to explore the local scene a bit.

The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. I'm a musician, a geek, an amateur intellectual, an amateur viking, a changeling, an absent-minded professor. I am also a respectable middle-class guy, although I'm not entirely sure how that happened. I'm pretty down-to-earth for someone who uses the word 'paradigm' in an online profile. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences.

I'm looking for play, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.

Signe

Vierge

Ma silhouette est

Normale

Ma taille est

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Mes yeux sont

Verts

Mon origine ethnique est

Caucasienne

Ma situation maritale est

Célibataire

J'ai des enfants

Non

Je veux des enfants

Non

Ce que j'ai de mieux

Pieds

Art Corporel

Piercings cachés, Tatouages visibles

Mes cheveux sont

Marrons

J'en ai 1 ou plus

Chat

Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs

Non

Mon niveau d'éducation est

Diplôme universitaire

Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est

Plein-temps

Mon domaine de compétence est

Ordinateurs / Electronique

Mon titre de fonction est

Web Developer

Je vis

Seul/e

Chez moi

Des amis passent à l'occasion

Je fume

Non

Je bois de l'alcool

Oui - souvent

Au lycée, j'étais un/e

Mal-aimé/e

Socialement, je suis plutôt

Réservé, Sympa, Comique, Sombre, Bizarre

Mes passions et loisirs sont

Lecture, Apprendre, Musique, Jeux, Ordinateurs

Un bon moment pour moi c'est

Faire de nouvelles expériences, Boire un coup, Lire, Aller à un concert, Aller au musée

J'ai toujours voulu essayer

Skydiving.

Mes amis me décrivent comme

Cool

Ma religion c'est

Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses

Mon but dans la vie c'est

To use my gifts well, find my place, leave things better than I found them, and try to understand that which can be understood. Also I like to make very loud noises occasionally.

Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt

Intelligent, Sarcastique, Obscur/e

Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est

Je suis musicien/ne

Mon idée du fun

Playing music is my main non-work related pursuit. I go see live music a lot, of all different kinds (or maybe just one kind - as Duke Ellington said once "There are just two kinds of music, good music and bad music.")I listen to NPR quite a lot, I play video games more than I should and I go out dancing a lot less than I should.

Que trouvez-vous attirant?

Intelligence, Beauté, Humour, Empathie, Etrangeté, Spontanéité, Bon sens, Délicatesse

Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?

Domination, Bondage, Rendez-vous, Je veux juste baiser