Just an ordinary man.
doctorsimple
Chicago, Illinois | Mann Søker A Kvinne
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Jeg vil beskrive meg selv som
I have been bdsm-aware pretty much as long as I can remember. My experience to date has been limited to personal relationships; I've never been part of a bdsm scene, or any scene, really. I don't place much stock in scenes, labels, movements, or paradigms. But I am starting to explore the local scene a bit.
The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. I'm a musician, a geek, an amateur intellectual, an amateur viking, a changeling, an absent-minded professor. I am also a respectable middle-class guy, although I'm not entirely sure how that happened. I'm pretty down-to-earth for someone who uses the word 'paradigm' in an online profile. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences.
I'm looking for play, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.
The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. I'm a musician, a geek, an amateur intellectual, an amateur viking, a changeling, an absent-minded professor. I am also a respectable middle-class guy, although I'm not entirely sure how that happened. I'm pretty down-to-earth for someone who uses the word 'paradigm' in an online profile. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences.
I'm looking for play, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.
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Utseende & Situasjon
My Kroppstype er
Gjennomsnittlig
Min høyde er
6 '0 (1,83 m)
Øynene mine er
Grønn
Min etnisitet er
kaukasisk
Min Sivilsituasjon er
Enslig
Jeg har barn
Nei
Jeg vil ha barn
Nei
Min beste egenskap er
Føtter
Kropps kunst
Hemmelig Piercing, Synlig tatovering
Mitt hår er
Brun
Jeg har en eller flere av disse
Katt
Villing til å flytte
Nei
Status
Min Utdanningsnivå Er
College Grad
Min nåværende arbeidssituasjon er
Fulltid
Min spesialitet er
Datamaskiner / Electronikk
Minn jobb tittel er
Web Developer
Jeg bor
Alene
Hjemme
Venner kommer av og til på besøk
Jeg er en røyker
Nei
Jeg drikker
Ja - Ofte
Personlighet
Når jeg gikk på skolen, var jeg
utstøtt
Min sosiale atferd er
Reservert, Vennlig, Komisk, Mørk, Merkelig
Mine interesser og hobbier er
Lese, Lære, Musikk, Spill, Datamaskiner
Min idé av å ha det gøy er
Prøve nye ting, Drikking, Lese en bok, Gå på konsert, Gå på museum
Jeg har alltid hatt lyst til å prøve
Skydiving.
Mine venner beskriver meg som
Kul
Visninger
Min religion er
Åndelig men ikke religiøs
Mitt mål i livet er
To use my gifts well, find my place, leave things better than I found them, and try to understand that which can be understood. Also I like to make very loud noises occasionally.
Min humoristiske sans er
Smart, Tørr / Sarkastisk, obskur
Smak
Når jeg hører på musikk, så hører jeg alltid på
Jeg er artist
Min idé av å ha det gøy er
Playing music is my main non-work related pursuit. I go see live music a lot, of all different kinds (or maybe just one kind - as Duke Ellington said once "There are just two kinds of music, good music and bad music.")I listen to NPR quite a lot, I play video games more than I should and I go out dancing a lot less than I should.
Leter etter
Hva finner du attraktivt?
Intelligens, Flott utseende, Humor, Empati, Rariteter, Spontanitet, vett, Omtanksfull
Hva slag forhold søker du?
Dominans, Bondage, Dato, Vil bare ha sex