Just an ordinary man.
doctorsimple
Chicago, Illinois | Homem Procurando um Mulher
Informação Básica
Me Descreveria Como
I have been bdsm-aware pretty much as long as I can remember. My experience to date has been limited to personal relationships; I've never been part of a bdsm scene, or any scene, really. I don't place much stock in scenes, labels, movements, or paradigms. But I am starting to explore the local scene a bit.
The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. I'm a musician, a geek, an amateur intellectual, an amateur viking, a changeling, an absent-minded professor. I am also a respectable middle-class guy, although I'm not entirely sure how that happened. I'm pretty down-to-earth for someone who uses the word 'paradigm' in an online profile. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences.
I'm looking for play, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.
The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. I'm a musician, a geek, an amateur intellectual, an amateur viking, a changeling, an absent-minded professor. I am also a respectable middle-class guy, although I'm not entirely sure how that happened. I'm pretty down-to-earth for someone who uses the word 'paradigm' in an online profile. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences.
I'm looking for play, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.
Signo
Virgem
Aparência & Situação
Meu Tipo de Corpo:
Mediano
Minha Altura:
1.83 m
Cor dos Olhos:
Verdes
Minha Etnia:
Caucasiana
Minha Situação Conjugal:
Solteiro
Com Filhos?
Não
Quer Ter Filhos?
Não
Minha Melhor Característica:
Pés
Arte no Corpo
Piercings Secretos, Tatuagem Visível
Cor de Cabelo:
Marrons
Animais Que Possuo:
Gato
Disposto/a a Mudar de Morada?
Não
Status
Nível Educacional
Diploma Universitário
Ocupação
Tempo Integral
Especialização
Computadores / Eletrônicos
Meu Título de Trabalho É
Web Developer
Eu Moro
Sozinho
Em Casa
Amigos Vêm Ocasionalmente
Eu Fumo
Não
Eu Bebo
Sim - Frequentemente
Personalidade
No Colegial, Eu Era Um
Marginal
Meu Comportamento Social É
Reservado, Amigável, Cômico/a, Sombria, Estranha
Meus Interesses e Atividades São
Ler, Aprender, Música, Jogos, Computadores
Minha Ideia De Um Momento Ideal É
Experimentar Novas Coisas, Beber, Ler Um Livro, Ir A Um Concerto, Ir A Um Museu
Eu Sempre Quis Tentar
Skydiving.
Meus Amigos Me Descrevem Como Sendo
Legal
Vistas
Minha Religião É
Espiritualizado Mas Não Religioso
Meu Objetivo na Vida É
To use my gifts well, find my place, leave things better than I found them, and try to understand that which can be understood. Also I like to make very loud noises occasionally.
Meu Tipo de Humor É
Inteligente, Seco / Sarcástico, Obscuro/a
Gosto
Quando Eu Ouço Música, Eu Sempre Ouço
Sou Cantor(a) / Músico/a
Para mim, Diversão É
Playing music is my main non-work related pursuit. I go see live music a lot, of all different kinds (or maybe just one kind - as Duke Ellington said once "There are just two kinds of music, good music and bad music.")I listen to NPR quite a lot, I play video games more than I should and I go out dancing a lot less than I should.
À procura de
O Que Você Acha Atraente?
Inteligência, Boa Aparência, Humor, Empatia, Esquisitices, Espontaneidade, Espirituoso/a, Consideração Pelos Outros
Que Tipo de Relacionamento Você Procura?
Dominação, Bondage, Encontro, Apenas Quero Transar