Just an ordinary man.
doctorsimple
Chicago, Illinois | Мужчина Ищу Женщину
Базовая информация
Я бы описал(а) себя как
I have been bdsm-aware pretty much as long as I can remember. My experience to date has been limited to personal relationships; I've never been part of a bdsm scene, or any scene, really. I don't place much stock in scenes, labels, movements, or paradigms. But I am starting to explore the local scene a bit.
The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. I'm a musician, a geek, an amateur intellectual, an amateur viking, a changeling, an absent-minded professor. I am also a respectable middle-class guy, although I'm not entirely sure how that happened. I'm pretty down-to-earth for someone who uses the word 'paradigm' in an online profile. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences.
I'm looking for play, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.
The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. I'm a musician, a geek, an amateur intellectual, an amateur viking, a changeling, an absent-minded professor. I am also a respectable middle-class guy, although I'm not entirely sure how that happened. I'm pretty down-to-earth for someone who uses the word 'paradigm' in an online profile. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences.
I'm looking for play, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.
Знак зодиака
Дева
Внешность и семейное положение
Телосложение
Среднее
Мой рост
182 см
Мои глаза
Зеленые
Моя этническая принадлежность
Белый европеец/кавказец
Семейное положение
Один/одна
У меня есть дети
Нет
Хочу детей
Нет
Привлекательная часть тела
Ступни
Боди-арт
Скрытый пирсинг, Видимые тату
Мои волосы
Коричневые
Домашние животные
Кошка
Хочу переехать
Нет
Статус
Образование
Средне-специальное
Работа/Учеба:
Полный рабочий день
Род занятий
Компьютеры/Электроника
Род занятий
Web Developer
Живу
Один/одна
Дома
Иногда приходят друзья
Отношение к курению
Нет
Пью
Да - часто
Характер
В школе я был(а):
Отверженный
Мое социальное поведение
Сдержанное, Сама дружелюбность, Комедийное, Мрачное, Странное
Интересы и увлечения:
Чтение, Учеба, Музыка, Игры, Компьютеры
Мое представление об отлично проведенном времени
Пробовать новое, Выпить, Чтение книг, Пойду на концерт, Пойду в музей
Я всегда хотел попробовать
Skydiving.
Друзья считают что я:
Крутой
Взгляды
Моя религия
Не поддерживаю религии
Моя цель в жизни
To use my gifts well, find my place, leave things better than I found them, and try to understand that which can be understood. Also I like to make very loud noises occasionally.
Мой юмор
Умный, Сарказм, Со странностями
Вкусы
Предпочитаемая музыка
Я записывающий музыкант
Мои идеи классного времяпрепровождения
Playing music is my main non-work related pursuit. I go see live music a lot, of all different kinds (or maybe just one kind - as Duke Ellington said once "There are just two kinds of music, good music and bad music.")I listen to NPR quite a lot, I play video games more than I should and I go out dancing a lot less than I should.
В поиске
Считаю привлекательным:
Интеллект, Красота, Юмор, Сопереживание, Странности, Спонтанность, Остроумие, Внимание
Ищу отношения типа:
Доминирование, Подчинение, Свидание, Просто ищу секс