Just an ordinary man.
doctorsimple
Chicago, Illinois | Мушкарац тражим жену
Основни подаци
Мој опис
I have been bdsm-aware pretty much as long as I can remember. My experience to date has been limited to personal relationships; I've never been part of a bdsm scene, or any scene, really. I don't place much stock in scenes, labels, movements, or paradigms. But I am starting to explore the local scene a bit.
The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. I'm a musician, a geek, an amateur intellectual, an amateur viking, a changeling, an absent-minded professor. I am also a respectable middle-class guy, although I'm not entirely sure how that happened. I'm pretty down-to-earth for someone who uses the word 'paradigm' in an online profile. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences.
I'm looking for play, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.
The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. I'm a musician, a geek, an amateur intellectual, an amateur viking, a changeling, an absent-minded professor. I am also a respectable middle-class guy, although I'm not entirely sure how that happened. I'm pretty down-to-earth for someone who uses the word 'paradigm' in an online profile. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences.
I'm looking for play, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.
Хороскопски знак
Девица
Изглед и стање
Моје грађа
Просечна
Висина
183 цм
Боја очију
Зеленa
Раса
Белац/Белкиња
Брачно стање
Сингл
Имам децу
Не
Желим децу
Не
Моја најбоља карактеристика
Стопала
Телесна обележја
Тајни пирсинг, Тетоважа на видном месту
Боја косе
Смеђa
Имам
Пас
Спреман/Спремна за селидбу
Не
Статус
Образовни ниво
Виша школа
Мој радни однос
Пуно радно време
Моја струка
Рачунари/Електроника
Назив мог радног места
Web Developer
Живим
Сам(а)
Код куће
Понекад ми дођу пријатељи
Пушим
Не
Пијем
Да - често
Личност
У средњој школи био/била сам
Повучен(а)
У друштву сам
Уздржан/уздржана, Дружељубив/дружељубива, Занимљив(а), Тамна/Црна, Чудан/чудна
Моја интересовања и хобији
Читање, Учење, Музика, Игре, Рачунари
Како замишљам провод
Волим да испробавам нове ствари, Пиће, Читање, Концерт, Посета музеју
Одувек сам желео/желела да
Skydiving.
Моји пријатељи кажу да сам
Кул
Погледи/Животни ставови
Религија
Духован/духовна сам, али не религиозан/религиозна
Мој животни циљ
To use my gifts well, find my place, leave things better than I found them, and try to understand that which can be understood. Also I like to make very loud noises occasionally.
Мој смисао за хумор
Паметан, Сиров/саркастичан, Чудан/чудна
Укус
Увек слушам
Ја сам музичар
Како замишљам добру забаву
Playing music is my main non-work related pursuit. I go see live music a lot, of all different kinds (or maybe just one kind - as Duke Ellington said once "There are just two kinds of music, good music and bad music.")I listen to NPR quite a lot, I play video games more than I should and I go out dancing a lot less than I should.
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Интелигенција, Изглед, Смисао за хумор, Саосећајност, Чудноватост, Спонтаност, Домишљатост, Брижљивост
Какву везу тражите?
Доминација, Везивање, Састанак, Само јебање