Take A Chance
theprof_49
Cincinnati, Ohio | Muž Hledám A Žena
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For two decades now I’ve followed a path that may be familiar to some of the dominants and submissives on this site. I’ve been married to a vanilla person who thinks BDSM is crazy; I’ve perfected my craft by reading and learning from seminars, demonstrations, and others of my persuasion; I’ve sought and found others on whom to ‘practice’; I’ve attended play parties and collarings, and frequented dungeons and observed. I even reverted to dating in the vanilla world for a few years. But now at 60, with my faculties intact (including all of my teeth) and at the top of my form, I’m once again on a BDSM website seeking a submissive.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
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Vodnář
Vzhled a situace
Má postava je
Štíhlá
Má výška je
1,73 m
Můj původ je
Běloch/běloška
Můj rodinný stav je
Rozveden/a
Barva mých vlasů
Tmavě hnědá
Mám jedno nebo více z uvedených
Kočka
Ochotný/ochotná se přestěhovat
Ne
Stav
Má úroveň vzdělání je
Vysokoškolské vzdělání
Můj současný stav zaměstnání je
Na plný úvazek
Mé zaměření je
Učitel / vzdělání
Název mého zaměstnání je
professor
To si vydělám za rok
$30,000USD až $44,999USD
Žiji
Sám/sama
Doma
Vše je v klidu
Jsem kuřák
Ano - dýmku
Piji
Ano - jedno nebo dvě
Osobnost
Na střední škole jsem byl/a
Tichý jedinec
Mé společenské chování je
Hlasité, Přátelská osoba, Otevřené
Mé zájmy a koníčky jsou
Umění a řemesla, Rodina, TV, Filmy, Rodina, Cestování, Vaření, Zahrádkářství
Má představa skvěle stráveného času je
Potloukat se s přáteli, Zůstat doma, Filmy, Čtení knihy, TV
Ideální první rande by bylo
Lunch at an upscale resturant where we can hear each other talk -- maybe at a place that serves outdoors, such as a Thai restaurant I know about in Mt. Adams, Cincinnati.
Moji přátelé mě popisují jako
Přátelská osoba, V pohodě, Potrhlý, Flirtující
Názory
Mé náboženství je
Křesťan
Navštěvuji bohoslužby
Jednou za měsíc
Můj životní cíl je
I've achieved my goals except to spend the rest of my life 24/7 with the right submissive at my place in the country.
Můj smysl humoru je
Chytrý, Suchý / sarkastický, Přátelská osoba, Prostopášná osoba
Chuť
V TV vždy sleduji
Zprávy, Dokumenty, Drama, Filmy
Když se dívám na filmy, vždy sleduji
Akční, Drama, Thriller
Když poslouchám hudbu, pak vždy poslouchám
Rock, Blues, Jazz, Soul
Když čtu, tak nejraději čtu
Biografie, Fikce, Historie, Mysteriózní, O přírodě
Má představa zábavy je
Hanging out at my house in the country on the weekend working on the house and garden, repairing, cooking, fixing things up.
Hledám
Co považuješ za atraktivní?
Inteligenci, Dobrý vzhled, Humor, Skvělé dovednosti, Empatii, Citlivost, Troufalost, Spontánnost, Koketnost, Důvtip, Ohleduplnost
Co hledáš?
signs of honesty, ability and willingness to communicate openly, creativity, flexibility, good humor, wit, intelligence, good conversation.
Jaký typ vztahu hledáš?
Anální sex, Dominance, Bondage, Partner na randění