Take A Chance
theprof_49
Cincinnati, Ohio | Mand Søger en Kvinde
Grundlæggende oplysninger
Jeg beskriver mig selv som
For two decades now I’ve followed a path that may be familiar to some of the dominants and submissives on this site. I’ve been married to a vanilla person who thinks BDSM is crazy; I’ve perfected my craft by reading and learning from seminars, demonstrations, and others of my persuasion; I’ve sought and found others on whom to ‘practice’; I’ve attended play parties and collarings, and frequented dungeons and observed. I even reverted to dating in the vanilla world for a few years. But now at 60, with my faculties intact (including all of my teeth) and at the top of my form, I’m once again on a BDSM website seeking a submissive.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
Underskriv
Aquarius
Udseende & Situation
Min kropstype er
Slank
Min højde er
173 cm
Min etnicitet er
Kaukasisk
Min civilstand er
Skilt
Mit hår er
Mørkebrun
Jeg har en eller flere af disse
Kat
Villig til at flytte
Nej
Status
Mit uddannelsesniveau er
Universitetsgrad
Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er
Fuldtid
Mit speciale er
Lærer / uddannelse
Min jobtitel er
professor
Jeg tjener så meget på et år
Fra $30.000 til $44.999USD
Jeg bor
Alene
Hjemme
Alt er roligt
Jeg er ryger
Ja - pibe
Jeg drikker
Ja - en eller to
Personlighed
I gymnasiet var jeg
Stille type
Min sociale opførsel er
Højtråbende, Venlig, Uadvendt
Mine interesser og hobbier er
Kunst og håndværk, Læsning, Tv, Film, Familie, Rejser, Madlavning, Havearbejde
Min idé om at have det sjovt er
Være sammen med venner, Være hjemme, I biografen, Læse en bog, Tv
En ideel første date ville være
Lunch at an upscale resturant where we can hear each other talk -- maybe at a place that serves outdoors, such as a Thai restaurant I know about in Mt. Adams, Cincinnati.
Mine venner beskriver mig som
Venlig, Cool, Fjollet, En flirt
Synspunkter
Min religion er
Kristen
Jeg deltager i tjenester
En gang i måneden
Mit mål i livet er
I've achieved my goals except to spend the rest of my life 24/7 with the right submissive at my place in the country.
Min form for humor er
Snu, Tør / sarkastisk, Venlig, Fræk
Smag
I tv ser jeg altid
Nyheder, Dokumentarer, Dramaer, Film
Når jeg går i biografen ser jeg altid en
Handling, Drama, Thriller
Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til
Rock, Blues, Jazz, Soul
Når jeg læser, læser jeg altid
Biografi, Fiktion, Historie, Mystik, Natur
Min forestilling om hvad der er sjovt er
Hanging out at my house in the country on the weekend working on the house and garden, repairing, cooking, fixing things up.
Leder efter
Hvad finder du attraktivt?
Intelligens, Flot udseende, Humor, Dygtighed, Empati, Følsomhed, Skaldethed, Spontanitet, Flirtende, Morsom, Omtanke
Hvad leder du efter?
signs of honesty, ability and willingness to communicate openly, creativity, flexibility, good humor, wit, intelligence, good conversation.
Hvilken type forhold leder du efter?
Analsex, Domination, Bondage, Dato