Take A Chance
theprof_49
Cincinnati, Ohio | Homme Cherchant Femme
Informations de base
Je me décrirais comme
For two decades now I’ve followed a path that may be familiar to some of the dominants and submissives on this site. I’ve been married to a vanilla person who thinks BDSM is crazy; I’ve perfected my craft by reading and learning from seminars, demonstrations, and others of my persuasion; I’ve sought and found others on whom to ‘practice’; I’ve attended play parties and collarings, and frequented dungeons and observed. I even reverted to dating in the vanilla world for a few years. But now at 60, with my faculties intact (including all of my teeth) and at the top of my form, I’m once again on a BDSM website seeking a submissive.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
Signe
Verseau
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
Mince
Ma taille est
5' 8 (1.73 m)
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne
Ma situation maritale est
Divorcé/e
Mes cheveux sont
Bruns foncés
J'en ai 1 ou plus
Chat
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs
Non
Statut
Mon niveau d'éducation est
Diplôme d'études supérieures
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est
Plein-temps
Mon domaine de compétence est
Professeur / Education
Mon titre de fonction est
professor
J'ai gagné cette année
De 30,000 € à 44,999 €
Je vis
Seul/e
Chez moi
C'est plutôt calme
Je fume
Oui - la pipe
Je bois de l'alcool
Oui - de temps à autres
Personnalité
Au lycée, j'étais un/e
Calme
Socialement, je suis plutôt
Bruyant, Sympa, Ouvert
Mes passions et loisirs sont
Art & artisanat, Lecture, Télévision, Films, Famille, Voyages, Cuisine, Jardinage
Un bon moment pour moi c'est
Sortir avec des amis, Rester à la maison, Regarder un bon film, Lire, Télévision
Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait
Lunch at an upscale resturant where we can hear each other talk -- maybe at a place that serves outdoors, such as a Thai restaurant I know about in Mt. Adams, Cincinnati.
Mes amis me décrivent comme
Sympa, Cool, Neuneu, Un amour
Points de vue sur la vie
Ma religion c'est
Chrétien
Je vais à la messe
Une fois par mois
Mon but dans la vie c'est
I've achieved my goals except to spend the rest of my life 24/7 with the right submissive at my place in the country.
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Intelligent, Sarcastique, Sympa, Coquin/e
Goûts
A la télévision, je regarde
Actualités, Documentaires, Drames, Films
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Action, Drames, Thrillers
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Rock, Blues, Jazz, Soul
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est
Biographies, Fictions, Histoire, Mystères, Nature
Mon idée du fun
Hanging out at my house in the country on the weekend working on the house and garden, repairing, cooking, fixing things up.
Recherchant un/e
Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Intelligence, Beauté, Humour, Talents, Empathie, Sensibilité, Audace, Spontanéité, Séduction, Bon sens, Délicatesse
Que recherchez-vous?
signs of honesty, ability and willingness to communicate openly, creativity, flexibility, good humor, wit, intelligence, good conversation.
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?
Sexe anal, Domination, Bondage, Rendez-vous