Take A Chance
theprof_49
Cincinnati, Ohio | Bărbat În căutare de Femeie
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For two decades now I’ve followed a path that may be familiar to some of the dominants and submissives on this site. I’ve been married to a vanilla person who thinks BDSM is crazy; I’ve perfected my craft by reading and learning from seminars, demonstrations, and others of my persuasion; I’ve sought and found others on whom to ‘practice’; I’ve attended play parties and collarings, and frequented dungeons and observed. I even reverted to dating in the vanilla world for a few years. But now at 60, with my faculties intact (including all of my teeth) and at the top of my form, I’m once again on a BDSM website seeking a submissive.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
Zodie
Vărsător
Aspect și situația
Tipul corpului meu este
Slab
Înălțimea mea este
5' 8 (1.73 m)
Sunt de etnie
caucaziană
Starea mea civilă este
Divorțat(ă)
Părul meu este
Șaten închis
Am mai multe de asta
Pisică
Dispus să mă mut
Nu
Status
Nivelul meu de educație este
Diplomă de Universitate
Starea mea forței de muncă actuală este
Cu normă întreagă
Specializarea mea este
Cadru didactic / Educație
Denumirea postului meu de muncă este
professor
Salariul meu anual este
30,000$ - 44,999$
Eu trăiesc
Singur(ă)
acasă
Liniște totală
Fumez
Da - pipe
Beau
Da - 1 sau 2
Personalitate
În liceu am fost
Cuminte
Comportamentul meu social este
Gălăgios, Prietenos, Deschis
Interesele și hobby-urile mele sunt
Artă și Artizanat, Citire, Tv , Filme, Familie, Călătorii, Gătire, Grădinărit
Distracția bună pentru mine este
Cu prietenii, Acasă, Filmele, Citind o carte, Tv
O prima întâlnire perfectă ar fi
Lunch at an upscale resturant where we can hear each other talk -- maybe at a place that serves outdoors, such as a Thai restaurant I know about in Mt. Adams, Cincinnati.
Prietenii mei mă descriu ca
Prietenos, Super, Ridicol, Cochet
Vizualizări
Religia mea este
Creștină
Particip la servicii
O dată pe lună
Scopul meu în viață este
I've achieved my goals except to spend the rest of my life 24/7 with the right submissive at my place in the country.
Genul meu de umor este
Deștept, Sec / Sarcastic, Prietenos, Vulgar
Gust
La TV întotdeauna mă uit la
Știri, Documentar, Drame, Filme
Când mă duc la filme, mereu merg pentru a vedea
Acțiune, Dramă, De aventuri
Când ascult muzică, mereu ascult
Rock , Blues , Jazz , Soul
Când citesc, eu citesc
Biografie, Ficțiune, Istorie, Mister, Natură
Distracția pentru mine este
Hanging out at my house in the country on the weekend working on the house and garden, repairing, cooking, fixing things up.
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Ce vi se pare atractiv?
Inteligență, Frumusețe, Umor, Abilități excelente, Empatie, Sensibilitate, Îndrăzneală, Spontaneitate, Flirt, Rațiune, Grija
Ce căutați?
signs of honesty, ability and willingness to communicate openly, creativity, flexibility, good humor, wit, intelligence, good conversation.
Ce fel de relație doriți?
Sex anal, Dominație, Sclavie, Partener de întâlniri