Take A Chance
theprof_49
Cincinnati, Ohio | Mann Suche eine/n Frau
Basis Information
Ich würde mich selbst beschreiben als
For two decades now I’ve followed a path that may be familiar to some of the dominants and submissives on this site. I’ve been married to a vanilla person who thinks BDSM is crazy; I’ve perfected my craft by reading and learning from seminars, demonstrations, and others of my persuasion; I’ve sought and found others on whom to ‘practice’; I’ve attended play parties and collarings, and frequented dungeons and observed. I even reverted to dating in the vanilla world for a few years. But now at 60, with my faculties intact (including all of my teeth) and at the top of my form, I’m once again on a BDSM website seeking a submissive.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
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Wassermann
Erscheinung & Situation
Mein Körpertyp ist
Dünn
Meine Größe ist
5' 8 (1.73 m)
Meine Herkunft ist
Kaukasisch
Mein Familienstand ist
Geschieden
Mein Haar ist
Dunkelbraun
Ich habe ein oder mehrere folgende Haustiere
Katze
Bereit umzuziehen
Nein
Status
Mein Ausbildungsgrad ist
Universitäts-Abschluss
Mein derzeitiges Dienstverhältnis ist
Vollzeit
Meine Spezialität ist
Lehrer / Ausbildung
Mein Job-Titel ist
professor
Ich verdiene im Jahr so viel
$30,000USD bis $44,999USD
Ich lebe
Alleine
Zuhause
Alles ist ruhig
Ich bin Raucher
Ja - Pfeife
Ich trinke
Ja - Eine oder zwei
Persönlichkeit
In der Hauptschule war ich
Stille(r)
Mein soziales Verhalten ist
Laut, Freundlich, Offen
Meine Interessen und Hobbys sind
Kunst & Handwerk, Lesen, TV, Filme, Familie, Reisen, Kochen, Gartenarbeit
Meine Vorstellung einer tollen Zeit ist
Mit Freunden ausgehen, Daheim bleiben, Filme, Ein Buch lesen, TV
Ein ideales erstes Date wäre
Lunch at an upscale resturant where we can hear each other talk -- maybe at a place that serves outdoors, such as a Thai restaurant I know about in Mt. Adams, Cincinnati.
Meine Freunde beschreiben mich als
Freundlich, Cool, Albern, Ein Flirt
Ansichten
Meine Religion ist
Christ
Ich besuche Gottesdienste
Einmal pro Monate
Mein Ziel im Leben ist
I've achieved my goals except to spend the rest of my life 24/7 with the right submissive at my place in the country.
Mein Art Humor ist
Clever, Trocken / Sarkastisch, Freundlich, Scharf
Geschmack
Im Fernsehen sehe ich mir Folgendes gerne an
Nachrichten, Dokumentationen, Dramen, Filme
Wenn ich ins Kino gehe, sehe ich immer
Action, Drama, Thriller
Wenn ich mir Musik anhöre, höre ich immer
Rock, Blues, Jazz, Soul
Wenn ich lese, lese ich immer
Biografie, Fiction, Geschichte, Mystery, Natur
Meine Vorstellung von Spaß ist
Hanging out at my house in the country on the weekend working on the house and garden, repairing, cooking, fixing things up.
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Was findest du attraktiv?
Intelligenz, Gutes Aussehen, Humor, Tolle Fähigkeiten, Einfühlungsvermögen, Sensibilität, Kühnheit, Spontanität, Flirtwillig, Esprit, Nachdenklich
Wonach suchst du?
signs of honesty, ability and willingness to communicate openly, creativity, flexibility, good humor, wit, intelligence, good conversation.
Nach welcher Art Beziehung suchst du?
Analsex, Dominanz, Bondage, Date