Take A Chance
theprof_49
Cincinnati, Ohio | Hombre Buscando Mujer
Información Básica
Me describiría a mi mismo como
For two decades now I’ve followed a path that may be familiar to some of the dominants and submissives on this site. I’ve been married to a vanilla person who thinks BDSM is crazy; I’ve perfected my craft by reading and learning from seminars, demonstrations, and others of my persuasion; I’ve sought and found others on whom to ‘practice’; I’ve attended play parties and collarings, and frequented dungeons and observed. I even reverted to dating in the vanilla world for a few years. But now at 60, with my faculties intact (including all of my teeth) and at the top of my form, I’m once again on a BDSM website seeking a submissive.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
Signo
Acuario
Apariencia y Situación
Mi tipo de cuerpo es
Delgado
Mi altura es
5' 8 (1.73 m)
Mi raza es
Caucásico
Mi situación marital es
Divorciado
Mi pelo es
Marrón Oscuro
Tengo uno o más de estos
Gato
Me iría a vivir a otro lugar
No
Estatus
Mi nivel de estudios / educación es
Diploma Universitario
Mi situación laboral actual es
Tiempo Completo
Mi especialidad es
Profesorado / Educación
Mi trabajo es como
professor
Mi salario anual es de
$30,000USD a $44,999USD
Vivo en
Solo/a
En casa
Todo tranquilo
Soy Fumador
Si - Pipas
Soy Bebedor
Si - Uno o dos
Personalidad
En el instituto, era
Del Tipo Callado
Socialmente, me describiría como
Ruidoso, Amistoso, Extrovertido/a
Mis aficiones e intereses son
Artes y Manualidades, Leer, Televisión, Películas, Familia, Viajar, Cocinar, Jardineria
Mi idea de un rato estupendo es
Salir con amigos, Quedarme en casa, Películas, Leer un Libro, Televisión
Mi primera cita ideal sería
Lunch at an upscale resturant where we can hear each other talk -- maybe at a place that serves outdoors, such as a Thai restaurant I know about in Mt. Adams, Cincinnati.
Mis amigos me describen como
Amistoso, Genial, Bobo, Coqueteo
Puntos de Vista
Mi religión es
Cristiano
Voy a la iglesia
Una Vez Al Mes
Mi meta en la vida
I've achieved my goals except to spend the rest of my life 24/7 with the right submissive at my place in the country.
Mi sentido del humor es
Inteligente, Seco / Sarcástico, Amistoso, Obsceno
Gustos
En la TV, siempre veo
Noticias, Documentales, Dramas, Películas
Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una
Acción, Drama , Suspense
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Rock, Blues, Jazz, Soul
Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es
Biografías, Ficción, Historia, Misterio, Naturaleza
Mi idea de diversión es
Hanging out at my house in the country on the weekend working on the house and garden, repairing, cooking, fixing things up.
Estoy buscando a
¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Inteligencia, Buena Imagen, Humor, Grandes Habilidades, Empatía, Sensibilidad, Audacia, Espontaneidad, Coquetería, Ingenio, Detallista
¿Qué estás buscando?
signs of honesty, ability and willingness to communicate openly, creativity, flexibility, good humor, wit, intelligence, good conversation.
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Sexo Anal, Dominación, Bondage, Cita