A dom who's been on the receiving end
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Guildford, United Kingdom | Muž Hledám A Žena
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Křestní jméno
Andy
Hovořím
Angličtina
Sebe bych popsal(a) jako
Of all the terms used in BDSM, "Switch" seems to be the most misunderstood. It's not half of one and half the other; it's ALL of BOTH.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
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Býk
Vzhled a situace
Má postava je
Fit
Má výška je
1,83 m
Můj původ je
Běloch/běloška
Můj rodinný stav je
Nikdy jsem nebyl ženatý nebo vdaná
Mám děti
Ne
Chci děti
Nejsem si jist(a)
Mou nejlepší částí je
Paže
Body Art
Ani mě to nenapadne
Barva mých vlasů
Tmavě hnědá
Mám jedno nebo více z uvedených
Žádní domácí mazlíčci
Ochotný/ochotná se přestěhovat
Ne
Stav
Má úroveň vzdělání je
Vysokoškolský diplom
Můj současný stav zaměstnání je
Osoba samostatně výdělečně činná
Mé zaměření je
Stavebnictví / Řemeslník
Název mého zaměstnání je
I'm a Gardener
Žiji
S rodiči
Doma
Vše je v klidu
Jsem kuřák
Ano - ve společnosti
Piji
Ano - jedno nebo dvě
Osobnost
Na střední škole jsem byl/a
Průměrný Pepa
Mé společenské chování je
Rezervované
Mé zájmy a koníčky jsou
Sportovní, Hudba, Hry, Cestování, Vaření, Zahrádkářství, Kempování, Počítače
Má představa skvěle stráveného času je
Potloukat se s přáteli, Relax, Čtení knihy, Jít do muzea
Ideální první rande by bylo
...a frank and honest synopsis of what both parties were looking for, followed by finding out whether there was an attraction that merited moving forward. Somewhere public...lunch, dinner, walk in park, swimming is a good date IMHO given that you really can't hide anything. But definitely a date with no strings.
Vždy jsem chtěl/a vyzkoušet
Ha I've tried a LOT from a sexual point of view. And the stuff I still want to try is NOT going up on a website lol
Moji přátelé mě popisují jako
Přátelská osoba
Názory
Mé náboženství je
Žádné náboženství
Navštěvuji bohoslužby
Nikdy
Můj životní cíl je
To find contentment whilst seeing others around me achieve this as well. Oh and to discover the secret of golf, write a book and become rich, foregoing contentment for hedonism and then dying alone. One of the two.
Můj smysl humoru je
Chytrý, Suchý / sarkastický, Temný
Chuť
V TV vždy sleduji
Nemám rád TV, Sportovní
Když se dívám na filmy, vždy sleduji
Science fiction, Drama
Když poslouchám hudbu, pak vždy poslouchám
Electronic, Klasické
Když čtu, tak nejraději čtu
Zprávy, Fantasy, Fikce, Domov a zahrada, Humor, O přírodě, Filozofické, Politické, Vědecké, Science fiction, Sportovní
Má představa zábavy je
Long walks, proper hikes, golf, wild swimming, good conversation, reading...oh and sex
Hledám
Co považuješ za atraktivní?
Důvtip, Spontánnost, Humor, Dobrý vzhled, Ohleduplnost, Inteligenci
Co hledáš?
Sanity, mostly. I think BDSM is about honesty and trust above all. So yeah, those three things.
Jaký typ vztahu hledáš?
Partner na randění, Intimní, Odevzdaný/á, Orální sex, Anální sex, Dominance, Bondage, Prostě si chci zašukat