A dom who's been on the receiving end
rubiconcrossed
Guildford, United Kingdom | Hombre Buscando Mujer
Información Básica
Nombre
Andy
Puedo hablar
Inglés
Me describiría a mi mismo como
Of all the terms used in BDSM, "Switch" seems to be the most misunderstood. It's not half of one and half the other; it's ALL of BOTH.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
Signo
Tauro
Apariencia y Situación
Mi tipo de cuerpo es
En Forma
Mi altura es
6' 0 (1.83 m)
Mi raza es
Caucásico
Mi situación marital es
Nunca Casado
Tengo hijos
No
Quiero tener hijos
No estoy seguro
Mi Mejor característica es
Brazos
Piercings, tatuajes…
Ni me lo pensaría
Mi pelo es
Marrón Oscuro
Tengo uno o más de estos
Sin Mascotas
Me iría a vivir a otro lugar
No
Estatus
Mi nivel de estudios / educación es
Diploma Unversidad
Mi situación laboral actual es
Auto Empleo
Mi especialidad es
Construcción / Manitas
Mi trabajo es como
I'm a Gardener
Vivo en
Con Padres
En casa
Todo tranquilo
Soy Fumador
Si - Socialmente
Soy Bebedor
Si - Uno o dos
Personalidad
En el instituto, era
Un tipo normal
Socialmente, me describiría como
Reservados
Mis aficiones e intereses son
Deportes, Música, Juegos, Viajar, Cocinar, Jardineria, Ir de camping, Computadoras
Mi idea de un rato estupendo es
Salir con amigos, Relajarse, Leer un Libro, Ir a un Museo
Mi primera cita ideal sería
...a frank and honest synopsis of what both parties were looking for, followed by finding out whether there was an attraction that merited moving forward. Somewhere public...lunch, dinner, walk in park, swimming is a good date IMHO given that you really can't hide anything. But definitely a date with no strings.
Siempre he querido probar
Ha I've tried a LOT from a sexual point of view. And the stuff I still want to try is NOT going up on a website lol
Mis amigos me describen como
Amistoso
Puntos de Vista
Mi religión es
No soy religioso
Voy a la iglesia
Nunca
Mi meta en la vida
To find contentment whilst seeing others around me achieve this as well. Oh and to discover the secret of golf, write a book and become rich, foregoing contentment for hedonism and then dying alone. One of the two.
Mi sentido del humor es
Inteligente, Seco / Sarcástico, Oscuro
Gustos
En la TV, siempre veo
No me gusta la TV, Deportes
Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una
Ciencia Ficción, Drama
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Electrónica, Clásica
Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es
Noticias, Fantasía, Ficción, Casa y Jardín, Humor, Naturaleza, Filosofía, Política , Ciencia , Ciencia Ficción, Deportes
Mi idea de diversión es
Long walks, proper hikes, golf, wild swimming, good conversation, reading...oh and sex
Estoy buscando a
¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Ingenio, Espontaneidad, Humor, Buena Imagen, Detallista, Inteligencia
¿Qué estás buscando?
Sanity, mostly. I think BDSM is about honesty and trust above all. So yeah, those three things.
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Cita, Íntimos, Comprometido, Sexo Oral, Sexo Anal, Dominación, Bondage, Sólo quiero follar