A dom who's been on the receiving end
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Guildford, United Kingdom | Man Letar efter Kvinna
Grundläggande information
Förnamn
Andy
Jag kan tala
Engelska
Jag skulle beskriva mig själv som
Of all the terms used in BDSM, "Switch" seems to be the most misunderstood. It's not half of one and half the other; it's ALL of BOTH.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
Stjärntecken
Oxen
Utseende & situation
Min kroppstyp är
Vältränad
Min längd är
186 cm
Min etnicitet är
Kaukasisk
Mitt civilstånd är
Aldrig varit gift
Jag har barn
Nej
Jag vill ha barn
Osäker
Min bästa kroppsdel är
Armar
Kroppskonst
Skulle aldrig ens tänka tanken
Mitt hår är
Mörkbrunt
Jag har en eller flera av dessa
Inga husdjur
Villig att flytta
Nej
Status
Min utbildningsnivå är
Universitetsexamen
Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är
Egen-företagare
Min specialitet är
Byggnadsarbete / Hantverkare
Min arbetstitel är
I'm a Gardener
Jag bor
Med föräldrar
Hemma
Allt är lugnt
Jag är rökare
Ja - feströker
Jag dricker
Ja - en eller två
Personlighet
I skolan var jag
Medelmåttan
Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är
Reserverad
Mina intressen och hobbies är
Sport, Musik, Spel, Resor, Matlagning, Trädgårdsarbete, Campa, Datorer
Att ha kul innebär för mig
Umgås med vänner, Tar det lugnt, Läsa en bok, Gå på museum
Den idealiska första dejten för mig skulle vara att
...a frank and honest synopsis of what both parties were looking for, followed by finding out whether there was an attraction that merited moving forward. Somewhere public...lunch, dinner, walk in park, swimming is a good date IMHO given that you really can't hide anything. But definitely a date with no strings.
Jag har alltid velat prova
Ha I've tried a LOT from a sexual point of view. And the stuff I still want to try is NOT going up on a website lol
Mina vänner tycker att jag är
Vänlig
Åsikter
Min religion är
Inte religiös
Jag går i kyrkan
Aldrig
Mitt mål i livet är
To find contentment whilst seeing others around me achieve this as well. Oh and to discover the secret of golf, write a book and become rich, foregoing contentment for hedonism and then dying alone. One of the two.
Min humor är
Klok, Torr / Sarkastisk, Obskyr
Smak
På TV tittar jag alltid på
Jag gillar inte TV, Sport
När jag går på bio ser jag alltid
Science Fiction, Drama
När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på
Eletronisk, Klassisk
När jag läser föredrar jag följande:
Nyheter, Fantasy, Fiktion, Hem & Trädgård, Humor, Natur, Filiosofi, Politisk, Vetenskap, Science Fiction, Sport
Det jag tycker är kul är
Long walks, proper hikes, golf, wild swimming, good conversation, reading...oh and sex
Letar efter
Vad tycker du är attraktivt?
Kvickhet, Spontanitet, Humor, Snygga drag, Omtänksamhet, Intelligens
Vad letar du efter?
Sanity, mostly. I think BDSM is about honesty and trust above all. So yeah, those three things.
Vilken form av förhållande söker du?
Dejt, Intimt, Hängivenhet, Oralsex, Analsex, Dominans, Bondage, Vill bara knulla