A dom who's been on the receiving end
rubiconcrossed
Guildford, United Kingdom | Homme Cherchant Femme
Informations de base
Prénom
Andy
Je sais parler
Anglais
Je me décrirais comme
Of all the terms used in BDSM, "Switch" seems to be the most misunderstood. It's not half of one and half the other; it's ALL of BOTH.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
Signe
Taureau
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
En forme
Ma taille est
6' 0 (1.83 m)
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne
Ma situation maritale est
Jamais été marié/e
J'ai des enfants
Non
Je veux des enfants
Pas sûr/e
Ce que j'ai de mieux
Bras
Art Corporel
Même pas envisageable
Mes cheveux sont
Bruns foncés
J'en ai 1 ou plus
Pas d'animaux
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs
Non
Statut
Mon niveau d'éducation est
Diplôme universitaire
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est
Auto-entrepreneur
Mon domaine de compétence est
Construction / Artisanat
Mon titre de fonction est
I'm a Gardener
Je vis
Avec mes parents
Chez moi
C'est plutôt calme
Je fume
Oui - socialement
Je bois de l'alcool
Oui - de temps à autres
Personnalité
Au lycée, j'étais un/e
Normal/e
Socialement, je suis plutôt
Réservé
Mes passions et loisirs sont
Sports, Musique, Jeux, Voyages, Cuisine, Jardinage, Camper, Ordinateurs
Un bon moment pour moi c'est
Sortir avec des amis, Me relaxer, Lire, Aller au musée
Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait
...a frank and honest synopsis of what both parties were looking for, followed by finding out whether there was an attraction that merited moving forward. Somewhere public...lunch, dinner, walk in park, swimming is a good date IMHO given that you really can't hide anything. But definitely a date with no strings.
J'ai toujours voulu essayer
Ha I've tried a LOT from a sexual point of view. And the stuff I still want to try is NOT going up on a website lol
Mes amis me décrivent comme
Sympa
Points de vue sur la vie
Ma religion c'est
Pas religieux/euse
Je vais à la messe
Jamais
Mon but dans la vie c'est
To find contentment whilst seeing others around me achieve this as well. Oh and to discover the secret of golf, write a book and become rich, foregoing contentment for hedonism and then dying alone. One of the two.
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Intelligent, Sarcastique, Obscur/e
Goûts
A la télévision, je regarde
Je n'aime pas la télévision, Sports
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Science-fiction, Drames
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Electro, Classique
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est
Actualités, Fantaisie, Fictions, Maison & jardin, Humour, Nature, Philosophie, Politique, Sciences, Science-fiction, Sports
Mon idée du fun
Long walks, proper hikes, golf, wild swimming, good conversation, reading...oh and sex
Recherchant un/e
Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Bon sens, Spontanéité, Humour, Beauté, Délicatesse, Intelligence
Que recherchez-vous?
Sanity, mostly. I think BDSM is about honesty and trust above all. So yeah, those three things.
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?
Rendez-vous, Relation intime, Engagement, Sexe oral, Sexe anal, Domination, Bondage, Je veux juste baiser