A dom who's been on the receiving end
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Guildford, United Kingdom | Bărbat În căutare de Femeie
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Of all the terms used in BDSM, "Switch" seems to be the most misunderstood. It's not half of one and half the other; it's ALL of BOTH.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
Zodie
Taur
Aspect și situația
Tipul corpului meu este
Fit
Înălțimea mea este
6' 0 (1.83 m)
Sunt de etnie
caucaziană
Starea mea civilă este
Niciodată căsătorit(ă)
Am copii
Nu
Doresc copii
Nu sunt sigur(ă)
Caracteristica mea cea mai bună este
Arme
Body Art
Nici nu m-aș gândi despre așa ceva
Părul meu este
Șaten închis
Am mai multe de asta
Fără animale de companie
Dispus să mă mut
Nu
Status
Nivelul meu de educație este
Diplomă de Colegiu
Starea mea forței de muncă actuală este
Propria afacere
Specializarea mea este
Construcție / Meserie
Denumirea postului meu de muncă este
I'm a Gardener
Eu trăiesc
Cu un părinte (părinți)
acasă
Liniște totală
Fumez
Da - sociabil
Beau
Da - 1 sau 2
Personalitate
În liceu am fost
Normal
Comportamentul meu social este
Închis
Interesele și hobby-urile mele sunt
Sporturi, Muzică, Jocuri, Călătorii, Gătire, Grădinărit, Camping, Calculatoare
Distracția bună pentru mine este
Cu prietenii, Relaxare, Citind o carte, La un muzeu
O prima întâlnire perfectă ar fi
...a frank and honest synopsis of what both parties were looking for, followed by finding out whether there was an attraction that merited moving forward. Somewhere public...lunch, dinner, walk in park, swimming is a good date IMHO given that you really can't hide anything. But definitely a date with no strings.
Întotdeauna am vrut să încerc
Ha I've tried a LOT from a sexual point of view. And the stuff I still want to try is NOT going up on a website lol
Prietenii mei mă descriu ca
Prietenos
Vizualizări
Religia mea este
Nu sunt religios
Particip la servicii
Niciodată
Scopul meu în viață este
To find contentment whilst seeing others around me achieve this as well. Oh and to discover the secret of golf, write a book and become rich, foregoing contentment for hedonism and then dying alone. One of the two.
Genul meu de umor este
Deștept, Sec / Sarcastic, Tainic
Gust
La TV întotdeauna mă uit la
Nu-mi place TV, Sporturi
Când mă duc la filme, mereu merg pentru a vedea
Științifico-fantastic, Dramă
Când ascult muzică, mereu ascult
Electronică, Clasică
Când citesc, eu citesc
Știri, Fantezie , Ficțiune, Casă și grădină, Umor, Natură, Filozofie, Politică, Știință, Științifico-fantastic, Sporturi
Distracția pentru mine este
Long walks, proper hikes, golf, wild swimming, good conversation, reading...oh and sex
În căutare de
Ce vi se pare atractiv?
Rațiune, Spontaneitate, Umor, Frumusețe, Grija, Inteligență
Ce căutați?
Sanity, mostly. I think BDSM is about honesty and trust above all. So yeah, those three things.
Ce fel de relație doriți?
Partener de întâlniri, Intim, Dedicat(ă), Sex oral, Sex anal, Dominație, Sclavie, Doar vreau să fut