A dom who's been on the receiving end
rubiconcrossed
Guildford, United Kingdom | Mann Suche eine/n Frau
Basis Information
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Andy
Ich kann sprechen
Englisch
Ich würde mich selbst beschreiben als
Of all the terms used in BDSM, "Switch" seems to be the most misunderstood. It's not half of one and half the other; it's ALL of BOTH.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
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Erscheinung & Situation
Mein Körpertyp ist
Fit
Meine Größe ist
6' 0 (1.83 m)
Meine Herkunft ist
Kaukasisch
Mein Familienstand ist
Nie Verheiratet
Ich habe Kinder
Nein
Ich möchte Kinder
Nicht sicher
Meine beste Eigenschaft ist
Arme
Körperkunst
Würde nicht einmal daran denken
Mein Haar ist
Dunkelbraun
Ich habe ein oder mehrere folgende Haustiere
Keine Haustiere
Bereit umzuziehen
Nein
Status
Mein Ausbildungsgrad ist
Hochschul-Abschluss
Mein derzeitiges Dienstverhältnis ist
Selbstständig
Meine Spezialität ist
Bau / Handwerker
Mein Job-Titel ist
I'm a Gardener
Ich lebe
Mit Eltern/Elternteil
Zuhause
Alles ist ruhig
Ich bin Raucher
Ja - Sozial
Ich trinke
Ja - Eine oder zwei
Persönlichkeit
In der Hauptschule war ich
Normalo
Mein soziales Verhalten ist
Reserviert
Meine Interessen und Hobbys sind
Sport, Musik, Spiele, Reisen, Kochen, Gartenarbeit, Camping, Computer
Meine Vorstellung einer tollen Zeit ist
Mit Freunden ausgehen, Entspannen, Ein Buch lesen, In ein Museum gehen
Ein ideales erstes Date wäre
...a frank and honest synopsis of what both parties were looking for, followed by finding out whether there was an attraction that merited moving forward. Somewhere public...lunch, dinner, walk in park, swimming is a good date IMHO given that you really can't hide anything. But definitely a date with no strings.
Ich wollte immer schon versuchen
Ha I've tried a LOT from a sexual point of view. And the stuff I still want to try is NOT going up on a website lol
Meine Freunde beschreiben mich als
Freundlich
Ansichten
Meine Religion ist
Nicht Religiös
Ich besuche Gottesdienste
Nie
Mein Ziel im Leben ist
To find contentment whilst seeing others around me achieve this as well. Oh and to discover the secret of golf, write a book and become rich, foregoing contentment for hedonism and then dying alone. One of the two.
Mein Art Humor ist
Clever, Trocken / Sarkastisch, Mysteriös
Geschmack
Im Fernsehen sehe ich mir Folgendes gerne an
Ich habe keinen Fernseher, Sport
Wenn ich ins Kino gehe, sehe ich immer
Science Fiction, Drama
Wenn ich mir Musik anhöre, höre ich immer
Electronic, Klassik
Wenn ich lese, lese ich immer
Nachrichten, Fantasy, Fiction, Heim & Garten, Humor, Natur, Philosophie, Politisch, Wissenschaft, Science Fiction, Sport
Meine Vorstellung von Spaß ist
Long walks, proper hikes, golf, wild swimming, good conversation, reading...oh and sex
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Was findest du attraktiv?
Esprit, Spontanität, Humor, Gutes Aussehen, Nachdenklich, Intelligenz
Wonach suchst du?
Sanity, mostly. I think BDSM is about honesty and trust above all. So yeah, those three things.
Nach welcher Art Beziehung suchst du?
Date, Vertrauter, Verpflichtendes, Oralsex, Analsex, Dominanz, Bondage, Möchte nur ficken