A dom who's been on the receiving end
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Guildford, United Kingdom | Mand Søger en Kvinde
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Fornavn
Andy
Jeg taler
Engelsk
Jeg beskriver mig selv som
Of all the terms used in BDSM, "Switch" seems to be the most misunderstood. It's not half of one and half the other; it's ALL of BOTH.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
Underskriv
Taurus
Udseende & Situation
Min kropstype er
Veltrænet
Min højde er
183 cm
Min etnicitet er
Kaukasisk
Min civilstand er
Aldrig gift
Jeg har børn
Nej
Jeg vil have børn
Ikke sikker
Mit bedste karaktertræk er
Arme
Kropsudsmykning
Ville ikke engang overveje det
Mit hår er
Mørkebrun
Jeg har en eller flere af disse
Ingen kæledyr
Villig til at flytte
Nej
Status
Mit uddannelsesniveau er
Universitetsuddannet
Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er
Selvstændig
Mit speciale er
Konstruktion / håndværker
Min jobtitel er
I'm a Gardener
Jeg bor
Med forældre
Hjemme
Alt er roligt
Jeg er ryger
Ja - til fester
Jeg drikker
Ja - en eller to
Personlighed
I gymnasiet var jeg
Gennemsnitlig
Min sociale opførsel er
Reserveret
Mine interesser og hobbier er
Sport, Musik, Spil, Rejser, Madlavning, Havearbejde, Camping, Computer
Min idé om at have det sjovt er
Være sammen med venner, Afslappende, Læse en bog, Gå på museum
En ideel første date ville være
...a frank and honest synopsis of what both parties were looking for, followed by finding out whether there was an attraction that merited moving forward. Somewhere public...lunch, dinner, walk in park, swimming is a good date IMHO given that you really can't hide anything. But definitely a date with no strings.
Jeg har altid villet prøve
Ha I've tried a LOT from a sexual point of view. And the stuff I still want to try is NOT going up on a website lol
Mine venner beskriver mig som
Venlig
Synspunkter
Min religion er
Ikke religiøs
Jeg deltager i tjenester
Aldrig
Mit mål i livet er
To find contentment whilst seeing others around me achieve this as well. Oh and to discover the secret of golf, write a book and become rich, foregoing contentment for hedonism and then dying alone. One of the two.
Min form for humor er
Snu, Tør / sarkastisk, Obskur
Smag
I tv ser jeg altid
Jeg bryder mig ikke om tv, Sport
Når jeg går i biografen ser jeg altid en
Science Fiction, Drama
Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til
Elektronisk, Klassisk
Når jeg læser, læser jeg altid
Nyheder, Fantasy, Fiktion, Hus og have, Humor, Natur, Filosofi, Politisk, Videnskab, Science Fiction, Sport
Min forestilling om hvad der er sjovt er
Long walks, proper hikes, golf, wild swimming, good conversation, reading...oh and sex
Leder efter
Hvad finder du attraktivt?
Morsom, Spontanitet, Humor, Flot udseende, Omtanke, Intelligens
Hvad leder du efter?
Sanity, mostly. I think BDSM is about honesty and trust above all. So yeah, those three things.
Hvilken type forhold leder du efter?
Dato, Intim, Forpligtet, Oralsex, Analsex, Domination, Bondage, Jeg vil bare have sex