A dom who's been on the receiving end
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Guildford, United Kingdom | Mann Søker A Kvinne
Grunnleggende informasjon
Fornavn
Andy
Jeg kan snakke
Norsk
Jeg vil beskrive meg selv som
Of all the terms used in BDSM, "Switch" seems to be the most misunderstood. It's not half of one and half the other; it's ALL of BOTH.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
Registrer
Taurus
Utseende & Situasjon
My Kroppstype er
Lekre
Min høyde er
6 '0 (1,83 m)
Min etnisitet er
kaukasisk
Min Sivilsituasjon er
Ugift
Jeg har barn
Nei
Jeg vil ha barn
Usikker
Min beste egenskap er
Armer
Kropps kunst
Vill ikke engang tenke på det
Mitt hår er
Mørk brun
Jeg har en eller flere av disse
Ingen dyr
Villing til å flytte
Nei
Status
Min Utdanningsnivå Er
College Grad
Min nåværende arbeidssituasjon er
Selvstendig næringsdrivende
Min spesialitet er
Konstruksjon / kunsthåndverker
Minn jobb tittel er
I'm a Gardener
Jeg bor
Med foreldre
Hjemme
Alt er rolig
Jeg er en røyker
Ja - Sosialt
Jeg drikker
Ja - En eller to
Personlighet
Når jeg gikk på skolen, var jeg
Gjennomsnittlig
Min sosiale atferd er
Reservert
Mine interesser og hobbier er
Sport, Musikk, Spill, Reise, Lage mat, Hagearbeid, Kamping, Datamaskiner
Min idé av å ha det gøy er
Være med venner, Slappe av, Lese en bok, Gå på museum
En ideel første date vil være
...a frank and honest synopsis of what both parties were looking for, followed by finding out whether there was an attraction that merited moving forward. Somewhere public...lunch, dinner, walk in park, swimming is a good date IMHO given that you really can't hide anything. But definitely a date with no strings.
Jeg har alltid hatt lyst til å prøve
Ha I've tried a LOT from a sexual point of view. And the stuff I still want to try is NOT going up on a website lol
Mine venner beskriver meg som
Vennlig
Visninger
Min religion er
Ikke religiøs
Jeg går på gudstjeneste
Aldri
Mitt mål i livet er
To find contentment whilst seeing others around me achieve this as well. Oh and to discover the secret of golf, write a book and become rich, foregoing contentment for hedonism and then dying alone. One of the two.
Min humoristiske sans er
Smart, Tørr / Sarkastisk, obskur
Smak
På TV ser jeg alltid på
Jeg liker ikke Tv, Sport
Når jeg går på kino, går jeg alltid for å se en
Science Fiction, Drama
Når jeg hører på musikk, så hører jeg alltid på
Electro, Klassisk
Når jeg leser, så leser jeg alltid
Nyheter, Fantasi, Fiction, Hus og hage, Humor, Natur, Filosofi, Politisk, Vitenskap, Science Fiction, Sport
Min idé av å ha det gøy er
Long walks, proper hikes, golf, wild swimming, good conversation, reading...oh and sex
Leter etter
Hva finner du attraktivt?
vett, Spontanitet, Humor, Flott utseende, Omtanksfull, Intelligens
Hva ser du etter?
Sanity, mostly. I think BDSM is about honesty and trust above all. So yeah, those three things.
Hva slag forhold søker du?
Dato, Intim, Forpliktet, Oral sex, Anal Sex, Dominans, Bondage, Vil bare ha sex