A dom who's been on the receiving end
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Guildford, United Kingdom | Man Op zoek naar een Vrouw
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Andy
Ik spreek:
Engels
Ik beschrijf mezelf als:
Of all the terms used in BDSM, "Switch" seems to be the most misunderstood. It's not half of one and half the other; it's ALL of BOTH.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.
I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.
I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.
Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.
If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.
If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.
Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.
Sterrenbeeld
Stier
Uiterlijk & Situatie
Mijn Lichaamstype Is
Fit
Mijn Lengte Is
6' 0 (1.83 m)
Mijn Ethniciteit Is
Blank
Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is
Nooit getrouwd
Ik Heb Kinderen
Nee
Ik Wil Kinderen
Niet Zeker
Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is
Armen
Body Art
Ik zou er niet eens aan denken
Mijn Haar Is
Donkerbruinharig
Ik heb één of meer van deze
Geen huisdieren
Ben je bereid te verhuizen?
Nee
Status
Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is
VWO
Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is
Zelfstandig
Mijn specialisatie is
Kunst / Muziek / Literatuur
Mijn functie is:
I'm a Gardener
Ik Woon
Met Ouder(s)
Bij mij thuis
Is het lekker rustig
Ik Ben Een Roker
Ja - Als ik uitga
Ik Drink
Ja - Een Of Twee
Persoonlijkheid
Op de middelbare school was ik
Gewoon
In sociale situaties ben ik
Gereserveerd
Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn
Sport, Muziek, Spellen, Reizen, Koken, Tuinieren, Kamperen, Computers
Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is
Met Vrienden zijn, Relaxen, Een boek lezen, Naar een museum gaan
Een perfecte eerste date is
...a frank and honest synopsis of what both parties were looking for, followed by finding out whether there was an attraction that merited moving forward. Somewhere public...lunch, dinner, walk in park, swimming is a good date IMHO given that you really can't hide anything. But definitely a date with no strings.
Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:
Ha I've tried a LOT from a sexual point of view. And the stuff I still want to try is NOT going up on a website lol
Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als
Vriendelijk
Meningen
Mijn Geloof Is
Niet religieus
Ik Ga Naar Diensten
Nooit
Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is
To find contentment whilst seeing others around me achieve this as well. Oh and to discover the secret of golf, write a book and become rich, foregoing contentment for hedonism and then dying alone. One of the two.
Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is
Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Obscuur
Smaak
Op tv kijk ik:
Ik hou niet van tv, Sport
In de bioscoop kijk ik:
Science Fiction, Drama
Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar
Electonische Muziek , Klassiek
Ik lees graag
Nieuws, Fantasy, Fictie, Huis & Tuin, Humor, Natuur, Filosofie, Politiek, Natuurwetenschap, Science Fiction, Sport
Mijn Idee Van Plezier is
Long walks, proper hikes, golf, wild swimming, good conversation, reading...oh and sex
Zoekt
Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?
Gevatheid, Spontaniteit, Humor, Goed Uiterlijk, Bedachtzaamheid, Intelligentie
Wat zoek je?
Sanity, mostly. I think BDSM is about honesty and trust above all. So yeah, those three things.
Waar ben je naar op zoek?
Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid, Orale Seks, Anale Seks, Dominatie, Bondage, Ik wil gewoon neuken