A dom who's been on the receiving end

First name

Andy

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Of all the terms used in BDSM, "Switch" seems to be the most misunderstood. It's not half of one and half the other; it's ALL of BOTH.

So, right now, I'm focussing on the Dom side. But what this means to you, as a Sub, is that I have been on your position and I know how hard it is to find a Master or Mistress who isn't...well, all about themselves, basically.

I don't think you are a snivelling worm, only fit to follow my orders whether you've hit subspace or not. I don't set out to do what I want to do regardless of what mood you are in. I'm very open to those who want to top from the bottom.

I enjoy slowly, inexorably bringing subs to ask (or beg) for some act to be performed upon them. I personally believe that bondage should be for the sensation of restraint rather than a means of control...that convincing a Sub to stay still without restraints is in fact a higher form of submission.

Of course, I also enjoy just flat out destroying someone whilst in full control! But if you are looking for someone who knows what it is to be disappointed by amateur and professional Dom /Dommes and wishes they could meet one who let you humiliate yourself to the degree you can do perfectly well on your own...but now with a trustworthy witness...that's me.

If you are a Dom / Domme and you've read this far, then yes of COURSE I'm interested. But I will contine to search for a Sub with whom I can grow my Dom side, preferably long term, regardless.

If you are a Switch who read this far, then please see above...with the caveat that you may be that sub.

Oh a note on accommodation.
Short answer: your place.
Longer answer: There's no secret wife or SO. My mother is almost 90 and she's not going in a home for as long as I can avoid it, end of story. So yes, I'm living at home. Yes, that seems weird for someone my age. But the alternative is something I could not live with and would feel guilty about for the rest of my life, so that's that. If we were talking about vanilla relationships then I'd brief you more about what to expect and give you the choice...but not for this part of my life. I hope you all can understand what I am saying here, reading between the lines. If you can't...wait until your parents get old and you'll figure it out then.

Sign

Taurus

My Body Type Is

Fit

My Height Is

6' 0 (1.83 m)

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Never Married

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Arms

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Contruction / Craftsman

My Job Title Is

I'm a Gardener

I Live

With Parent(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Socially

I Drink

Yes - One Or Two

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Sports, Music, Games, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

...a frank and honest synopsis of what both parties were looking for, followed by finding out whether there was an attraction that merited moving forward. Somewhere public...lunch, dinner, walk in park, swimming is a good date IMHO given that you really can't hide anything. But definitely a date with no strings.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Ha I've tried a LOT from a sexual point of view. And the stuff I still want to try is NOT going up on a website lol

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

To find contentment whilst seeing others around me achieve this as well. Oh and to discover the secret of golf, write a book and become rich, foregoing contentment for hedonism and then dying alone. One of the two.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure

On Tv, I Always Watch

I Don't Like Tv, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Science Fiction, Drama

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Electronic, Classical

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Fantasy, Fiction, Home & Garden, Humor, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Science, Science Fiction, Sports

My Idea Of Fun Is

Long walks, proper hikes, golf, wild swimming, good conversation, reading...oh and sex

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Spontaneity, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

Sanity, mostly. I think BDSM is about honesty and trust above all. So yeah, those three things.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date, Intimate, Committed, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Just Wanna Fuck